Go for a walk somewhere - a quiet small town, out in nature - something simple. Get to know her - how she thinks, what she feels, what she has been through, who she is at her core.

To love myself for who I am, and not to hide that away for any reason. I have a great deal to share with others - humor, compassion, organizational skills, vision, creativity - but to limit who I am does a dis-service to me, to others and to God.

Forming a strong relationship with Jesus each and every day. Eating some great food.

Create a farm with herb and vegetable gardens, be a beekeeper, strengthen my archery skills, create more with my bowyer / fletcher / leatherworker skills, help others in their healing through the Adventist health message / ministry, to live my life to my fullest, to love another person passionately and fully, to wake up each day thanking the Lord for another day to work with him.

So many...yet so little space....

I've been through the land where another person sees me as the solution to their situation in life - emotionally, physically and otherwise. I don't need to go visit or live there again.

I am looking for someone who is healing on her way to wholeness, know who she is / what she wants to do, does not need me to "complete" her in order to be in a relationship, someone who can laugh in one breath and be completely focused in the next breath like I am.

While I have no children of my own, I am open to meeting a woman who has children. Kids seem to like me for some unknown reason, and I respect them as the growing humans they are. I see myself as a role model, possibly mentor, yet "father" seems far removed from my thoughts but I could be wrong.