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My I'm Alfie. I'm a middle aged man, heavy not fat. I'm a little quiet until I get to know you. I can talk about several topics. I am a serious amateur photographer and bass guitar player. I'm fun to be with and have a good sense of humor. I have worked steadily since I got out of college. I've been Adventist my entire life. I'm looking for an attractive neat Adventist woman who has a good sense of humor enjoys traveling and likes to do different things but doesn't feel the need to do something every weekend. I've been all over the United States, the Carri bean, Europe and parts of Mexico and Canada. I plan to see other parts of the world and would enjoy having that special someone with me. Sometimes I enjoy evenings together listening to music or watching a DVD with my woman alone or a few close friends. I haven't been into mind games since out of college. I like want an woman who is not moody or afraid to share feelings or afraid to be honest. If I sound like the guy for you, please contact me.


Basic Information

LocationHemet, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 11" (180 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
Relationship StatusDivorced
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of WorkSocial Worker
EthnicityBlack / African descent
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

MusicSoul/Rhythm and Blues
Outdoor activityTraveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityMusic
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a very trendy person


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 50 and 55 years old
DistanceWithin 500 miles of Hemet, CA, USA
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 6' 0" (182 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few
EducationI don't have an education, High School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityonce or twice a month, every week
EthnicityAfrican, Asian, Black / African descent, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, East Indian, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other



What I'd like to do on a first date...

I would like to go to a play or even on a quiet picnic in the country and get to know my date. Spend some quality time. Those are the special moments that remain etched in our memories.

My past relationships have taught me...

Seize the moment because there's no guarantee a second chance will occur.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Being a member of a body of christians who appreciate the sacrifices that our Lord and Saviour made for us and respect the laws he implemented to give us a more fullfilling and rewarding life. It's not always easy to do God's will because we/I are selfish and self serving. It takes everything to serve the Lord and if we give it out all we are guaranteed a blessing that will more rewarding than any of the pleasures and goals we set in this life.

In five years, I see myself

Working, traveling, buying another house and hopefully enjoying that special someone the Lord has blessed me with.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Revelation 21:4 "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be anymore pain: for the former things are passed away."

One final thing I'd like to mention...

If we(my soulmate & I) can be honest with each other and risk baring and our feeling and develop trust between each other and learn that we don't always have to agree but respect each others point of view we've won half the battle. The first half is always to keep God first in everything we do. Whoever my soulmate is we are going to have an enjoyable life and some good times ahead.

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