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My I'm Alfie. I'm a middle aged man, heavy not fat. I'm a little quiet until I get to know you. I can talk about several topics. I am a serious amateur photographer and bass guitar player. I'm fun to be with and have a good sense of humor. I have worked steadily since I got out of college. I've been Adventist my entire life. I'm looking for an attractive neat Adventist woman who has a good sense of humor enjoys traveling and likes to do different things but doesn't feel the need to do something every weekend. I've been all over the United States, the Carri bean, Europe and parts of Mexico and Canada. I plan to see other parts of the world and would enjoy having that special someone with me. Sometimes I enjoy evenings together listening to music or watching a DVD with my woman alone or a few close friends. I haven't been into mind games since out of college. I like want an woman who is not moody or afraid to share feelings or afraid to be honest. If I sound like the guy for you, please contact me.
|Location||Hesperia, CA, USA|
|Height||5' 11" (180 cm)|
|Build||I should maybe lose a few|
|Religious Involvement||every week|
|Field of Work||Social Worker|
|Ethnicity||Black / African descent|
|Music||Soul/Rhythm and Blues|
|Timeliness||I am usually on time|
|As for fashion||I'm a very trendy person|
|Age||Between 43 and 55 years old|
|Distance||Within 500 miles of Hesperia, CA, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 0" (152 cm) and 6' 0" (182 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few|
|Education||I don't have an education, High School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree|
|Religious Activity||once or twice a month, every week|
|Ethnicity||African, Asian, Black / African descent, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, East Indian, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other|
I would like to go to a play or even on a quiet picnic in the country and get to know my date. Spend some quality time. Those are the special moments that remain etched in our memories.
Seize the moment because there's no guarantee a second chance will occur.
Being a member of a body of christians who appreciate the sacrifices that our Lord and Saviour made for us and respect the laws he implemented to give us a more fullfilling and rewarding life. It's not always easy to do God's will because we/I are selfish and self serving. It takes everything to serve the Lord and if we give it out all we are guaranteed a blessing that will more rewarding than any of the pleasures and goals we set in this life.
Working, traveling, buying another house and hopefully enjoying that special someone the Lord has blessed me with.
Revelation 21:4 "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be anymore pain: for the former things are passed away."
If we(my soulmate & I) can be honest with each other and risk baring and our feeling and develop trust between each other and learn that we don't always have to agree but respect each others point of view we've won half the battle. The first half is always to keep God first in everything we do. Whoever my soulmate is we are going to have an enjoyable life and some good times ahead.