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Hi - My name is Hetty, I am a friendly, outgoing & happy gal. I enjoy an active lifestyle as an Adventist and love to go on long walks with my dog & keeping fit. I feel young & I don't look my age. I am soft-spoken, love to sing & direct choir with several outreach ministries.
I would like to meet a gentlemen who enjoys traveling, having fun, spending time with family, enjoys the outdoors and loves to dance in the Kitchen. Who also has strong Christian values and enjoys church related activities. After four years since my husbands passing, I would like to meet someone adventurous who would like to take this new adventure with me. I value romance & intimacy, humor, honesty, & open communication.


Basic Information

LocationRaleigh, NC, USA


About Me

Height5' 8" (172 cm)
HairLight Brown
Relationship StatusWidowed
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationTechnical School
Field of WorkSales Rep
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionEnjoy laughing, faithful friend, adventuresome, relationship with God
MusicClassical, Country/Western, Folk, Hip Hop/Rap, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Gospel/Religious Music, Rock n Roll, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
Favorite bands and musiciansThe Three Tenors,Barbra Streisand,Sarah Brightman,Josh Roban,Daniel O'Donnell, Charlotte Church
MovieAction/Adventure, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Musical, Romance, Western
Favorite movies and actorsHarrison Ford, Sean Connery, Tom Hanks, John Wayne,Musicals
Favorite TV showsNetflix TV series with drama/humor, I don't watch much TV
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles, Biking, Birdwatching, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, Sunbathing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityArt, Cars, Charity/Volunteering, Collecting, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Dancing, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Reading, Restaurants, Shopping
My idea of a great tripBeach, Mountains, Islands, & Cruises or anywhere with you
FoodAmerican, Barbeque, Cajun/Southern, Chinese, European, Fast food, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Mediterranean, Mexican, Seafood, Southwestern, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsOlive Garden, Ruby Tuesday's, Sweet Tomatoes
Schools attendedOshawa Missionary College, Toronto Nursing School
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 60 and 75 years old
HeightBetween 5' 10" (177 cm) and 7' 0" (213 cm)
Body TypeAverage, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusDivorced, Widowed
Religious Activityevery week
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White, Native American



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Restaurant/Concert/Museum/Cafe..... just to sit and talk and get better acquainted.

My past relationships have taught me...

To live life to the fullest. To value each day as a God given gift. To Cherish & Nurture my spouse & encourage him to be a man lead by God & the spiritual leader of our home. To be honest, open and a good listener. That Love overcomes all. To be able to compromise is important but not at the cost of oneself. To respect the other persons opinion while not necessarily agreeing on all issues. To be able to say I'm sorry and learn from my mistakes. To see the good in others.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Having a closer walk with God daily. To study God's Word & have an active prayer life as a lifestyle. To share my love for the Lord & His soon return. Living a healthy lifestlye as God's vessel. To always have the Lord with me wherever I go & be happy while doing it.

In five years, I see myself

I desire to serve the Lord in Evangelism in a greater way in my Church, my home life and my community. I would like to make a difference for the Lord in all that I do and to hasten His soon return. I see myself happily married.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Isaiah 41:10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
No matter what I've gone through or experienced in my life, God has carried me through & been there for me, He will never let me down. It encourages me to see the positive and be optimistic about the future.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I have 4 grown children whom I love and adore, & have a close relationship with.
I enjoy my walks with my dog everyday. Nature, & the out of doors, the change of seasons gives me great joy! I enjoy decorating my home for each season and gardening is a great pastime. Color is very important to me, I love flowers and birds.

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A Day at the Park

Core Color = Yellow

  •   yellow: 47%
  •   blue: 32%
  •   red: 14%
  •   white: 7%

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