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Hi, Thank-you for looking at my profile. My name is Hetty after reading my profile, please contact me if you believe we have compatibility.
I am friendly and outgoing and happy gal with a good outlook on life. I enjoy an active lifestyle w/Church & community. I enjoy entertaining my friends & family and they mean alot to me.
I'm very healthy & no physical concerns. I don't go to the doctor often as I believe in preventive care. My mom was 100 when she passed, so I have longevity in my genes. I love to go on long walks with my Royal Standard Poodle & keeping fit with weight control is important to me. I don't look my age & expect to have many more years of productivity & good health. I feel young. I love keeping busy & productive, but then enjoy a well-deserved rest.
Music is a big part of my life. Just recently auditioned for the NC Symphony Master Choral & have been accepted to sing with them another season. I have been singing with them for 25 years and last year we performed in 27 venues. I'm Director of the Joyful Noise Chior Ministry, which provides singing and a program for Retirement Centers and Nursing Homes.
Having a daily relationship with God through time spent each day is paramount to me. Sabbath is a special time to me, I enjoy witnessing, nature walks, visiting with friends & just generally getting away from the hub bub of everyday life.
I've had a variety of education & am a Certified Esthetician & Cosmotologist & a Practical Nurse.
I am 5'8" & slender frame. I love to dress like a lady with dresses & heels, I look good in blue jeans too.
I like to cook & know my way around the kitchen, but I don't turn down help either.
I am a lady that likes to be treated like one, but am also ready to recipricate in like kind.
I don't want to play relationship games, I appreciate loyaly & dependability & would provide a Reliable, Dependable, Hard-working & Very Caring Partner & Lover.(Regarding the Color Code, I'm yellow & almost half blue.)
I keep a tidy home & like things to look like company's coming, a home that is inviting & comfortable, where you want to come home to.

I would like to meet someone with Christian values & loves to be involved in church related activities. Friendship first & looking for a long term relationship including marriage. I value humor, honesty, good open communication.


Basic Information

LocationRaleigh, NC, USA


About Me

Height5' 8" (172 cm)
HairLight Brown
Relationship StatusWidowed
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationTechnical School
Field of WorkSales Rep
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionSpiritual, Active,Sense of Humor, Outgoing, Friendly, Compassionate, Caring and Musical
MusicClassical, Country/Western, Folk, Hip Hop/Rap, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Gospel/Religious Music, Rock n Roll, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
Favorite bands and musiciansHis Way, Heritage, Joe Pearles, Oldies ,No Rapp
MovieAction/Adventure, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Musical, Romance, Western
Favorite movies and actorsHarrison Ford,Sean Connery,Tom Hanks, John Wayne,Musicals
Favorite TV showsNetflix TV series with drama, I don't watch much TV
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles, Biking, Birdwatching, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, Sunbathing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityArt, Cars, Charity/Volunteering, Collecting, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Dancing, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Reading, Restaurants, Shopping
My idea of a great tripBeach, Mountains, Islands, and Cruises
FoodAmerican, Barbeque, Cajun/Southern, Chinese, European, Fast food, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Mediterranean, Mexican, Southwestern, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsOlive Garden, Ruby Tuesday's, Ruth Chris Steak House
Schools attendedOshawa Missionary College, Toronto Nursing School
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 60 and 75 years old
HeightBetween 5' 11" (180 cm) and 7' 0" (213 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationAssociate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusDivorced, Widowed
Religious Activityevery week
EthnicityCaucasian / White



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Restaurant/Concert/Museum/Cafe..... just to sit and talk and get better acquainted.

My past relationships have taught me...

To be honest, open and a good listener. That Love overcomes all. To be able to compromise is important but not at the cost of oneself. To respect the other persons opinion while not necessarily agreeing on all issues. To be able to say I'm sorry and learn from my mistakes. To see the good in others.

To me, being an Adventist means...

To have a close relationship with the Lord. To study the Word daily and have an active prayer life. To share my love for the Lord and His soon return. Living a healthy lifestlye as God's vessel. To always have the Lord with me wherever I go and be happy while doing it.

In five years, I see myself

I desire to serve the Lord in a greater way in my Church, my home life and my community. I would like to make a difference for the Lord in all that I do and to hasten His soon return. I see myself happily married.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Isaiah 41:10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
No matter what I've gone through or experienced in my life, God has carried me through and been there for me and He will never let me down.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I have 4 grown children whom I love and adore, & have a good relationship with.
I enjoy my walks with my dog everyday. Nature, & the out of doors, the change of seasons gives me joy!

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Celebrating Life

Core Color = Yellow

  •   yellow: 47%
  •   blue: 32%
  •   red: 14%
  •   white: 7%

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