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Introduction

I am a businessman in the real estate business. My career is appraising but I also invest in rental property. I am close to my parents and children and am always there for my friends. I like Drag Races and NASCAR but I'm not a "gear head" though I am mechanically adept. I really don't care much for traditional sports. I do, however, enjoy intimate time (the female version of intimacy!) with that special someone more than anything. I read a lot, starting and ending my day with the Bible (with relationship books in between) and can converse on numerous topics but I am far from a know it all. The more I learn the more I discover that I DON'T know! Praise God for new things to learn! I look at life as a continual learning journey and I am easily amused with life.

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Basic Information

GenderMale
LocationArcadia, KS, USA
Age57

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About Me

Height5' 7" (170 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairDark Brown
EyesBrown
Children5+
Children home0
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkReal Estate Appraiser
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

MovieRomance
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles
Indoor activityReading
PoliticsConservative
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 30 and 50 years old
DistanceWithin 300 miles of Arcadia, KS, USA
HeightBetween 4' 10" (147 cm) and 5' 9" (175 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average
EducationAny
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityon special occasions, several times a year, once or twice a month, every week
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
EthnicityAsian, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Pacific Islands

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

Dinner, talking, listening, quiet time getting acquainted. Learning about each other, how exciting!

My past relationships have taught me...

That I need to pay more attention to what I'm doing and to seek help from the creater of relationships. I am constantly learning by reading relationhship books and have learned that most things we believe about relationships are simply myths. It takes more than believing in something for a relationship to work. You have to be engaged in the relationship. Sometimes, it's not easy. I know that I must be involved and not bury my head in the sand hoping the problems we inevitably face will go away. I have learned that I am battling Satan in hand-to-hand combat in a relationship as he is constantly seeking to destroy it but with God on my side, the odds of victory dramatically increase. Listening, gentleness, understanding, communication, Listening, sharing, showing kindness, listening... : ) Did I say Listening?

To me, being an Adventist means...

Making every attempt to live up to Christ's standards by reinforcing our minds with His word daily and teaching our children by example as they see Christ through us. Living in the truth of His word and not the lies of this world. Accepting, keeping an open mind, being who HE wants me to be, not what I want me to be.

In five years, I see myself

Developing some new houses and building my real estate portfolio for retirement. I expect Christ to come before then but we are on His time frame not our own. ...And finding a permanent relationship that is His will for my life with someone who understands the depths of true commitment.

My favorite Bible passage is...

I can do all things through Christ Jesus who strengthens me...because we ALL need His help.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I've lost 20 pounds and the mustache since the pictures. Still working on creating new habits for a healthy lifestyle.

I'm divorcing and looking for a new beginning. I have a two year old daughter that I am seeking custody of because I married Gomer. For the last 19 months we have been waging an unfortunate interstate custody battle between two states. She lives in Oregon and the matter is before the Kansas and Oregon courts right now. It's a battle I'd prefer not to have but one that I think is necessary. I know it may be offensive to a woman for a dad to fight for custody of the kids but I'd prefer to raise her as an Adventist than for her to live in the adulterous environment she is in. This battle is expected to last a few more months so I ask for your understanding in this matter. I'm not the kind of dad to ditch my kids in favor of sending a child support check and be restricted to sparse time with my daughter. I'm not the typical Dad. I am engaged and involved, totally crazy about my kids and willing to have more with the right woman.

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