Any activity that would allow us to talk, listen and get to know each other better.

Take it slow. Take the time to really learn about each other. When couples move too quickly, they loose their objectivity and can make some big mistakes.

This is a huge question and one I wish all would thoughtfully consider. It seems like many of us are ashamed of our calling. In the strictest sense to say we are Adventists is to hold the view that like Israel of old, we are Gods sacredly denominated people. “The Sabbath will be the great test of loyalty, for it is the point of truth especially controverted.” GC 601 Christ's advent is near, and it seems to me that most of us are not ready, and playing church is not the answer to the problems in the church. And concession of principle to gain members or popularity is definitely not the answer. God gave to this church the spirit of prophecy to help us find our way. If we ignore it and live how we choose it seems to me that we have fallen off the path, down into the dark and wicked world below. EW 15

I would like to have a little house in the country where I can live close to nature, have a garden, maybe some chickens for fun and to be able to look and see bright stars at night.

Behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. John 1:29 It says we are to behold. I believe that we do this as we daily read and contemplate from scripture Christ's work for mankind as revealed in the plan of salvation. Demonstrated in his life of daily surrender to God in behalf of all who would hear and obey his teachings, and demonstrated ultimately in the surrender of his very life on the cross for our sake, which we are called to imitate. 1Pet 2:21,22 Rev 14:4,5.

Women do not need to compromise in order to find a good man. many of you say that you drink alcohol on occasion. weather that is true or if you just said that to help draw more men to your profile, think about what kind of men you might be drawing.