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IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU READ/SEE THEN FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE ME. Chances are you and I are thinking the same thing "I wonder what I should say??" "He looks pretty decent. Will he respond??" Seriously though, let's be honest with one another on here. Granted, this is a "Dating website" filled with strangers who are rather scary or on the other hand somewhat welcoming and attractive judging by their photos or "about me's"...but so is the world, correct? Also isn't meeting some random person on here just like meeting a person you've never seen, talk to or met before from off the street, club, bookstore, vacation, church, or even train station?? Only thing better in that experience is that at least you can actually read their body language, hear their tone & get a feel for who they are. --)Even if they're lying. We all gotta be careful. Especially you women, a lot of these goons can portray to be anything on the internet. So, I know it takes a lot to be on here and deal with some of these wacko's (believe me I've definitely had my share b/c women lie too). But if you're able to take the risk of jumping on a site just like you are at stepping outside to go to work or the movies or something. Then WHY NOT try to see what's really out there or on here by actually interacting (I mean, for the most part all of you women say you're "open-minded"). That being said, I understand messages that are sent from these guys aren't always on point or there are some who really just don't strike you ladies as "what you're looking for" or tickle your fancy, but how the hell else will you be able to get to know someone if you do not really try. It's all a Catch 22, I know.
Not spazing just thought I'd vent a little, haha.
On to my brief but somewhat descriptive self-evaluation:
I'm very open-minded, witty, sarcastic, full of humor. There's not a narcissistic bone in my sexy body. I love Music, can't get enough of it actually, there's always a tune playing in my head and I'll always seem to find references in someone's sentence.. I'm really into Arts, Movies, theater, museums and anything cultured with some sort of intriguing history behind it. I love story lines & interesting facts. I'm an artist (Graphic Design) and I'm aspiring to owning my own business in the same field. I try to be a gentleman first, chivalry & morals are an extreme must...I'd give some of the credit to my parents they taught me well...I suppose. Although, I had a stronger hand in perfecting it. I'mma real family oriented dude (they are my closest friends). I'm ready to take initiative but also very poised...I'm up for anything just as long as it's somewhat wholesome. I'm looking forward to meeting some "good, fun-loving" women. Someone who doesn't take themselves or their lives too bloody seriously. I'm not really looking for anything long term just yet. Let's feel things out first. Take it slow, become friends. Let's get associated with one another's personalities first. Figure out what makes each other tick and if something substantial & concrete does come of it then...even better for the two of us...CHEERS!!!
I have no particulars about who I meet. Meaning race, creed, size (not oversized now). Height doesn't really bother me either. I'll be the short person in the duo. The Boo Boo to your Yogi. I'm not that much of a picky guy (only to certain things I eat). Believe me when I say I'm open to the unusual as well as the conventional personalities. We all are "different," right?? Not one of us is completely the same in characteristics. So when you claim to be "weird", I'd say all of us share a trait of the "odd" or "abnormal." Okay, maybe I'd be lying a little if I said I'm not a bit choosy or selective in my preferences. We all have our limitations... Like if you're more than "rotund" and you choose to take nothing but head shot pictures to conceal what really is. I said it earlier, I'm not picky nor am I holding anything against you but being bigger than me is one thing. LARGER than me is totally another. Pleasssssse no smokers and in appearance I do just ask for a minimal amount of tattoos and piercings. Oh and make-up shouldn't be like caked up all over you face, please. Lol, please let's think "moderation". I understand that you feel GOD didn't do you a great amount of justice in the facial or skin section of your features but I assure you I'll accept you despite the so called "physical flaws" that you're soooo mindful of. One pimple won't stop the show! I mean, I'll be staring at it too but it still won't stop the show. You're beautiful as is...well, some of you are anyways. Was that too mean??
|Location||Yonkers, NY, USA|
|Height||5' 9" (175 cm)|
|Relationship Status||Single - never been married|
|Field of Work||Graphic Designer|
|Ethnicity||Black / African descent, Caribbean|
|Music||Blues, Classic Rock, Dance/Disco, Hip Hop/Rap, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Pop/Top 40, Punk, Reggae, Gospel/Religious Music, Rock n Roll, Soft Rock, Soul/Rhythm and Blues|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller, Western|
|Outdoor activity||Basketball, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Photography, Sports/Athletics, Swimming|
|Indoor activity||Art, Collecting, Computers, Movies/TV, Music, Sports|
|My idea of a great trip||Cruises|
|Food||American, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Spanish, Vegetarian/Vegan|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I dress to be comfortable|
|Age||Between 26 and 36 years old|
|Distance||Within 50 miles of Yonkers, NY, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 4" (162 cm) and 5' 9" (175 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Average, Full-figured|
|Education||High School, Some College|
|Religious Activity||once or twice a month, every week|
|Ethnicity||African, Asian, Black / African descent, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, East Indian, Hispanic / Latino, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islands|
A walk through a park; a train ride through the city; Walk along the beach; I'll even try cooking. Something low key and enjoyable
With all of what life brings you can always expect the unexpected
Establishing my own business
I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me__Phil 4:13