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I named myself Lady Butterfly because of the transforming work God continues to do in my life. I am dedicated, loyal, love to sing and listen to music. I am a sincere seeker of God and strive to live for Him and follow His leading. An active lifestyle is important to me. I enjoy hiking and would love the opportunity to get back into water skiing, motorcycles, kayaking, and gardening.

I'm looking for a life-long partner who also is a sincere seeker of God and wants to live completely for Him. Who loves to laugh and can challenge me. Someone who knows balance between work and play. Who loves the outdoors and is active, yet is selfless enough to slow down if others can't keep up.


Basic Information

LocationNear Roseburg, OR, USA


About Me

Height5' 8" (172 cm)
HairLight Brown
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenAsk me
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of WorkOffice Manager/Bookkeeper
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionSing, Play the Saxophone, Creative, Love to Laugh
MusicClassical, Country/Western, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Gospel/Religious Music
Favorite bands and musiciansFernando Ortega
MovieComedy, Documentary
Favorite movies and actorsSecond Hand Lions and movies that teach me something
Favorite TV showsHow To... or Documentary
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Sailing, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityArt, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Music, Reading
My idea of a great tripBeing active in nature along with opportunity for quiet and rest. Also road trips and exploring.
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Italian, Mexican, Southwestern, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsAnywhere there are good vegetarian options.
Schools attendedPacific Union College '94 - '98
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 34 and 50 years old
DistanceWithin 500 miles of Near Roseburg, OR, USA
HeightBetween 5' 10" (177 cm) and 6' 6" (198 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few
EducationHigh School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Religious Activityevery week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

An activity where there is plenty of opportunity to talk, but the whole day doesn't depend on coversation.

My past relationships have taught me...

God must be the center. Freedom of choice without pressure to be someone else is a real treasure. No one is perfect. Respect is vital. Love is a choice. Life is a continual opportunity to learn, and in any meaningful relationship both need to be committed to continually learning.

To me, being an Adventist means...

It's all about a relationship with God. He is my rock and I look to Him for direction and perspective. My relationship with Him is then a naturally shining light for those in my circle of influence. This experience is grounded in Biblical truth. I especially love the Sabbath and appreciate the bigger picture the great controvercey offers.

In five years, I see myself

It is hard to make my own plans when I've put God in charge. I find He is always stretching me and my ideas of where I should be. It would be nice to find my life-long partner and be serving God together. In the meantime, I want to fully recover my active lifestyle, eat a healthy mostly vegan diet and dare to dream about one day having land of my own out in the country big enough for a big garden and fruit & nut trees... guy or no guy.

My favorite Bible passage is...

I have many favorite texts... they paint a picture of the character of God and who I am to Him. Here is a sample:

"You are My servant, I have chosen you and have not cast you away: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:9a - 10

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I love to have fun, throw my head back and roll with laughter, while also being careful to honor my responsibilities. Balance is so important, making sure that priorities don't get lost along the way.

Yes, I am divorced on Biblical grounds.

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