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I named myself Lady Butterfly because of the transforming work God continues to do in my life. I am dedicated, loyal, love to sing and listen to music, and am a sincere seeker of God. Living for God is a way of life for me, involving everything. Living for God means that the things in this world are not my priority. Instead letting God be my everything and shine through me while being of service to others is my focus.

I'm looking for a life-long partner who is a sincere seeker of God and wants to live completely for Him. Who loves to laugh and can challenge me. Someone who knows balance between work and rest. Who loves the outdoors and is active, yet is selfless enough to slow down if others can't keep up.


Basic Information

LocationWinston, OR, USA


About Me

Height5' 8" (172 cm)
HairLight Brown
Relationship StatusDivorced
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of WorkOffice Manager/Bookkeeper
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionSing, Play the Saxophone, Creative, Love to Laugh
MusicClassical, Gospel/Religious Music
Favorite bands and musiciansPraise Music & Hymns
Favorite movies and actorsTeach me something
Favorite TV showsHow To... or Documentary (I don't have a TV at home)
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityArt, Charity/Volunteering, Crafts, Music, Reading
My idea of a great tripWhere I can soak up the beauty of nature.
FoodChinese, Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsAnywhere there are good vegetarian options.
Schools attendedPacific Union College
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 34 and 50 years old
DistanceWithin 500 miles of Winston, OR, USA
HeightBetween 5' 10" (177 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few
EducationHigh School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Religious Activityevery week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

An activity where there is plenty of opportunity to talk, but the whole day doesn't depend on it.

My past relationships have taught me...

God must be the center. Freedom of choice without fear of retribution is a real treasure. No one is perfect. Respect is vital. Love is a choice. Life is a continual opportunity to learn, and in any meaningful relationship both need to be committed to continually learning.

To me, being an Adventist means...

It's all about a relationship with God, grounded in the Bible. He is my rock and I look to Him for direction and perspective. My relationship with Him is then a naturally shining light for those in my circle of influence.

My walk with God would be considered a little liberal by some since I focus on my relationship with God; while others would consider me conservative because I want to live completely for Him which brings in a willing heart for following His commandments and recommendations.

In five years, I see myself

It is hard to make my own plans when I've put God in charge. I find He is always stretching me and my ideas of where I should be. So in the next five years I want to serve Him wherever He leads. It would be nice to find my life-long partner and be serving God together.

My favorite Bible passage is...

I have many favorite texts... they paint a picture of who God is and who I am to Him.

"You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You." Isaiah 26:3

"Have you not known? Have you not heard? The everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth, neither faints nor is weary. His understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the weak, and to those who have no might He increases strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall, but those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint." Isaiah 40:28-31

"You are My servant, I have chosen you and have not cast you away: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:9b-10

"Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; You are Mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned. Nor shall the flame scorch you." Isaiah 43:1b-2

"Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:37-39

"And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character, and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us." Romans 5:3-5

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I love to have fun, throw my head back and roll with laughter, but that is not enough for a meaningful relationship.

Yes, I am divorced on Biblical grounds.

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Oct 2014

Core Color = Red

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Reds Are

Action orientedAssertive