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  I'm looking first for an honest, caring, SDA man who is in love with the Lord. I would like to find a man who genuinely loves and appreciates me for who I am. He will have time to spend together, and will be a good communicator and will enjoy doing things together such as reading, cooking, home improvement projects, hobbies or outdoor activities. I want a man I can stand beside and I can compliment and support. I want a healthy portion of chemistry and compatibility. Honesty is essential. It is important to build trust, and not destroy it. I have a good sense of humor and need a man who is happy, kind, honest and enjoys life. I'm honest, caring and sincere. I'm feminine, but I'm a hard worker and am capable in many ways. I enjoy walking, hiking, skiing and just being outdoors. I like the ocean, rivers, lakes, ponds, rain, and a squirt gun fights on a hot day. I'm not interested in a long-distance relationship. It is too hard to get to know someone without spending time together. Consequently, I'm most interested in meeting someone who lives in this area and start as friends. A couple hundred miles is about the maximum distance I'd be interested in.


Basic Information

LocationLoma Linda, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 4" (162 cm)
HairLight Brown
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of WorkHR for large institution
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenChinese, English


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionI'm spunky, attractive, feminine, and can fix many things that most girls can't.
MusicClassical, Jazz, Oldies, Gospel/Religious Music
MovieAction/Adventure, Romance
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityCollecting, Crafts, Games
FoodBarbeque, Chinese, Greek, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 55 and 65 years old
DistanceWithin 300 miles of Loma Linda, CA, USA
HeightBetween 5' 10" (177 cm) and 6' 3" (190 cm)
Relationship StatusDivorced, Widowed
Religious Activityevery week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

A hike or the beach would be nice. Someplace where we can talk and get to know each other. Outdoors would be great. Maybe a concert in the park. Dinner also works. Definitely not a movie. That does not offer any interaction. I'm open to new ideas, and to surprises!

My past relationships have taught me...

It is essential to keep God in the center of your relationship/marriage. My number one priority is to find a man who loves the Lord with all his heart. Honesty and a kind caring nature are also a must. I'm looking for someone who is trustworthy, and who genuinely cares about me and about "us". Communication is an essential part of any relationship. I want to find someone whom I can compliment, and who appreciates me like no other. I want to meet someone with similar interests so we have lots of things we enjoy doing together. The first step is to become best friends, and accept and love each other for who we are. I'm not interested in jumping into a serious relationship. I want to meet someone I enjoy, and who enjoys and appreciates me the same. That friendship can grow into a deep love. Friends first, OK?

To me, being an Adventist means...

It is important that I meet an Adventist man who puts God first. His life will show where his priorities are. If God is first, everything else will fall into place. I wish to find someone who understands 'and shares my faith, someone who will take an active role in worship together. There is a lot of room for me to grow, and I hope to never stop. I'm a work in progress. Jesus is coming soon, and that is much more exciting than anything on this earth.

In five years, I see myself

Spend more quality time with the ones I love. I'd like to travel, maybe to Greece or Rome. I would like to go on a Mission Trip. I'm striving to develop a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ, which is ongoing...

My favorite Bible passage is...

"And my God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in Glory in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19. Another one is "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5,6 and yet another one "Forget about what's happened; don't keep going over old history. Be alert, be present. I'm about to do something brand new." Isaiah 43:18-19 The Message Bible

One final thing I'd like to mention...

My three children are grown and all have professional career (two nurses and one PT). All are in the area, and I have been blessed with 6 grandchildren. I'm lacto-ova vegetarian and would prefer a vegetarian partner. A lot of my family is vegan, and I could go that way if it was important. I'm not ready to jump into a serious relationship, but would like to make friends and see what happens. I believe that when the time is right, God will open the door for me to meet the right man. I'd like open communication. No secrets and no games. Let's be real.