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Introduction

Hard worker, around people constantly. I enjoy recharging on the elliptical, pounding the racquetball, strolling tree-lined rural neighborhoods, laughing throughout Family Fun Night, or relishing a good paperback. And here's your forwarning: this introvert comes packaged with a silly side...:) I really like an outgoing man who can coax me out of my Blue shell and get my Yellow side to come out and play...:)

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Basic Information

GenderFemale
LocationJoshua, TX, USA
Age34

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About Me

Height5' 3" (160 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairLight Brown
EyesBrown
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI am open to all possibilities
Children1
Children home1
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkUniversity Administrative Assistant
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

Self-descriptionMusical. Artistic. Enjoy physical activity. Played sports until I got injured. Adventurous! :)
MusicClassical, Gospel/Religious Music, World
Favorite bands and musiciansShannon Wexelberg, Anonymous Four, Simple Gifts of the Northwest
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Western
Favorite movies and actorsMy flesh likes movies a lot. That's why I rarely watch movies except wholesome/religious films.
Favorite TV showsI gave away my TV. Sometimes I watch SDA television online, nature/creation science shows
Outdoor activityBasketball, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityAerobics, Art, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Games, Music, Opera/Theater
My idea of a great tripViewing the wildflowers of the Texas Hill Country. Roughing it outdoors :) Quality time with you?
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsI like vegetarian/vegan food from all over the world. Prefer dark green salad options!
PoliticsConservative
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 34 and 45 years old
DistanceAny
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

I'm a big believer in friendship first. Romance for me comes much later. That said: Fun in a group, smiles and laughter, no effort to impress. I appreciate the ability to get acquainted while working for the Lord, or while thinking about godly topics in a group. I don't really want anything more in a "first date" scenario.

My past relationships have taught me...

Christ's standards should attract a like-minded couple to grow closer. If it drives a wedge between them, no amount of fondness can bridge that gulf. Guard your hearts!

Confession time....This one's lengthy but important. I've learned that expressing my emotions is important to the man, instead of my being so logical all the time. (Maybe this is strange to you to hear this from a woman.) I'm probably a stereotypical ISTJ in this area. Despite my sweet affectionate nature, I have been known to talk about everything under the sun EXCEPT how I really feel. Verbally expressing emotions is not natural for me. So, I've been working hard to be more in touch with my emotions and be more forthcoming about my feelings, as this improves relationships across the board. Seek to take note of other people's emotion cues and be emotionally-available. My future spouse will reap the benefits of this work in progress. Definately willing to do the hard work it takes to make a relationship thrive. I do believe I have more to offer a man this time around.

I am the proud mom of a spunky, endearing extroverted teenager with special needs. (My child is not disabled.) If a godly man is interested in me, it's a package deal--he cannot accept one without the other. All parties involved must respect the bonding process...that road is much longer than you think.

To me, being an Adventist means...

More than the Fundamental Beliefs. I believe that when we let Christ show us our brokenness, and we seek wholeness in Him, then He fills us with His healing, His joy, His wisdom, His peace, His forgiveness, His patience, His courage, His selflessness. It is out of the overflow of Christ in us that we serve our fellow man, it's this overflow that gives us something to offer this world. I am learning to set boundaries for my own sake to get to know God on a deeper level. To be still...to listen when I pray instead of talking only. To ask God to feed me with His Holy Word and help me memorize scripture, as that has never come naturally to me. The title of Seventh-Day Adventist to me should mean that that person really knows God well and comes to Him with everything in his or her life, relishes the Sabbath, and is willing to be made willing to serve however the Lord sees fit.

In five years, I see myself

Within 5 years I hope to be flirting mercilessly with my husband, need I day more? ;D Does my profile spark your interest? Then please ask for more details :) Yes, I have big dreams and goals I want to reach within specific timelines. Plans relating to career, family, financial freedom, ministry projects. I'm a planner but not a micromanager--that's too much work!

My favorite Bible passage is...

Many favorites. John 15:15-16 is special to me. It means that Jesus does not simply seek adoration and adhearance--He wants relationship with you and me! I also sing acapella Psalm 139:7-12 on occasion to bless someone special to me. He is always there for you and me. God is forever, His love never fails. :)

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I am confident, thankful, and happy! :) A follower of Jesus Christ...Psalm 84:4. I serve as a certified volunteer Chaplain in the Texas state prison system. Also sing for the Lord in ministry and teach in children's ministry when time allows. Past experience working with severely disabled children and adults. They will always have a special place in my heart. :)

I am attracted to a man who is willing to stand up for Jesus and will serve his post in the army of Christ! What a blessing to possibly be inspired and challenged by him to keep growing as an Adventist Christian. That said, I want him to accept me for who I am, not his idealized version of me. That same measure of respect would be returned to him. Should I be blessed with marriage to a single father, I would welcome his kids and treat them as my own, while respecting their mother's irreplacable role.

It is my prayer that you would consider spiritual compatiblity the most important factor of your relationships with a potential spouse. I do. My desire is to prepare for marriage God's way. So glad someone taught me about biblical courtship. It's what I want. Looking to marry my best friend. Won't settle for anything less! Curious about courtship? Watch the 2015 movie "Old Fashioned." Ellen White's book "The Adventist Home" is another good courtship resource.

I'm in no rush. The best things in life come to those who wait. :). Thanks for visiting my profile! May God guide you in your plans and in your search.

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April 2014

Core Color = Blue

  •   blue: 44%
  •   yellow: 23%
  •   red: 19%
  •   white: 15%

Blues Are

AnalyticalCommitted
CompassionateDedicated
DeliberateDependable
EmotionalLoyal
NurturingSeek Quality
RespectfulSincere
ThoughtfulWell-Mannered