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Introduction

"Blessed are those whose strength is in You, who have set their hearts on pilgrimage." Psalm 84:4

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Basic Information

GenderFemale
LocationJoshua, TX, USA
Age34

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About Me

Height5' 3" (160 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairLight Brown
EyesBrown
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children1
Children home1
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkFinancial Administrative Assistant
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

Self-descriptionMusical. Artistic. Enjoy physical activity. Played sports until I got injured. Adventurous! :)
MusicClassical, Gospel/Religious Music, World
Favorite bands and musiciansShannon Wexelberg, Anonymous Four, Simple Gifts of the Northwest
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Western
Favorite movies and actorsMy flesh likes movies a lot. That's why I rarely watch movies except wholesome/religious films.
Favorite TV showsI gave away my TV. Sometimes I watch SDA television online, nature/creation science shows
Outdoor activityBasketball, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityAerobics, Art, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Games, Music, Opera/Theater
My idea of a great tripVisit the Hualapai Tribe. Mission trip for disaster relief effort. Lush gardens, rushing water.
FoodVegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsA restaurant with wheat-free and corn-free meal options :D
PoliticsConservative
Schools attendedPublic High School. Some community college. My child attends SDA private school.
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 30 and 43 years old
DistanceAny
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married, Widowed
Religious Activityevery week
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
EthnicityAsian, Black / African descent, Caucasian / White, East Indian, Hispanic / Latino, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

I want to get to know a guy without the romantic expectations first. I ask myself, "Can I be me around this guy? Or do I feel a need to impress?" I know this about me: If I want to impress a single guy, then I know I'm not being authentic and my heart won't have pure intentions.

My church has a great close group of single guys and ladies in their 30's. We are eager to study and serve Jesus Christ and have fun without acting like this group is a "dating service." We spend time together a lot. I would like to see how my date and I would behave among my friends from church and among his friends from church. Let them assist in keeping things Christ-centered and provide accountability. I don't really want anything more in a "first date" scenario.

My past relationships have taught me...

I've learned that I've had difficulty with respect. I used to think that giving respect was contingent upon performance. Unconditional respect toward men in general is a challenging concept for women to learn (as I’m sure you’re well aware of.) My thinking is reformed only because of God’s grace and wisdom. He showed me how I was discouraging men with my words without realizing it. The Lord subsequently gave me years of practice respecting men's thoughts, values, and decisions while I disagreed with them. I am far from perfect. I’m still liable to slip up and react in an unhelpful manner. But the end result of choosing respect was always worth the effort. It's worth building somebody up rather than tearing somebody down. God is growing me up and I praise Him for (span style="font-weight:bold;")it.

It's crucial that your spiritual mission/calling as a single person complements your future spouse's spiritual mission/calling.

The man who is truly interested in a Christ-centered marriage will pursue it and invest in it. Didn't you pursue the education you have, your career, your promotion, your leadership opportunities? So you've shown that you pursue what you truly want I'm on a platonic basis with you should you contact tyle="font-weight:bold;")me. And if you want a more prominent role in my life, it's up to you and the Lord to change my mind. Isn't that what a pursuer does?

To me, being an Adventist means...

Allowing Jesus Christ to stay in our way. He is our leader, isn't He? SHOULDN'T that mean that He gets to stay in our way?

I could say more but in short: 1 Cor. 13:1-3.......Adventists are generally known for "what they know." As an Adventist, I want to be known for more than having The Truth. I consider Scriptural Truth a heavyweight shell when it isn't filled with LOVING RELATIONSHIP. It's my prayer that the men who contact me value the principle of Relationship-Filled Biblical Truth.

In five years, I see myself

--Grow in Christ and in the knowledge of the Word of God!

--Influence and teach my teenager the love of Jesus Christ. Model the love of Jesus instead of pounding in doctrine. Encourage tough questions and hear honest opinion so that the decision to follow Jesus will eventually be my teen's independent choice, not just the culture of the household.

--Help disaster recovery efforts in my mother's home island of Bohol, Philippines. Raise awareness of the needs of thousands of tent-schools on Bohol that endured back-to-back calamity, a devestating earthquake then Super-Typhoon Haiyan. Perhaps begin organizing SDA university mission trips to the earthquake recovery zones of Bohol island where there is very little Adventist presence.

--Hosting small group ladies bible studies in my home. Visiting community people seeking bible studies. Mentor baby Christian women especially those who are single mothers.

--Become a common fixture at the Christian university where I work, advancing in my department to a salaried position.

--Hopefully, my young teen will be well on the way to graduating from SDA Academy five years from now.

--Returning to oil painting classes and French Horn classes. Sing for churches again as a soloist or in vocal ensembles on occasion.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Lately it's been Jeremiah 31...almost in its entirety. It's been particularly meaningful to me in recent weeks because God is promising restoration and healing to those who had turned their backs on God and returned to Him. I desire my family members who have walked away from the Lord to return to Him and make Him their Lord Of All. I was becoming discouraged about this until I read Jeremiah 31 very recently and this time the words seemed to speak right into the situation. Not only did I surrender my worry/sadness over my family members, I became awed and encouraged at how the end will be for all us prodicals who returned to the Lord, and so will see Jesus face to face. The Lord is faithful to complete the work He has started in me and in my family. I'm choosing to trust in Him as I keep claiming His promises here in Jeremiah 31 and other scripture promises.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I am a busy single mom with an active teenager. It is quite a different life then that of a single adult. I can only send smiles and I cannot currently chat or read e-mails on this website. I do appreciate your interest..perhaps in the future I can afford to upgrade my membership here. I'm here mainly to see what the Lord will do. If an interested guy has patience, perhaps we can talk more in the future. I do update my profile, so just stay tuned.....

Thank you for your interest! May God guide your search.

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