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Introduction

I work a great deal with the public in Christian higher education and also serve as a community service liaison. Caucasian-Filipino. Courtship-minded. Meyers-Briggs type ISTJ. Fun-loving, empathetic, quality-driven, and I have a quirky fun side that surprises people.

My aspirations are many. I want to become better at Scripture memorization. It's my dream to go study at the ARISE Institute within the next five years. Implement and thrive on a CREATION Health plan and reach my fitness and wellness goals. Take formal voice lessons for the first time to enhance my music ministry. Move to a larger place so I can have people over at my house for a great meal and fellowship or small group Bible study. Keep having fun teaching Cradle Roll Sabbath school ages1-3 yrs old--they are a joy to me! Get over my nervousness about preaching a sermon in the men's prison, and finally just do it!! Learn Spanish for work purposes and to help give Bible studies in Spanish or English. I would love to go on an overseas mission trip with my teenager to Asia or to the Middle East. It seems like a lot but I like to dream big. :) I know God will make His Purpose come to pass so no dream is too big for God!! I would love to have a wonderful man in my life to encourage me in these goals and I encourage him in his goals. If more children are in my future I welcome it and I'm equally content with the teenager God has blessed me with.



I think many men want to give no second thought to a single mom. That's your choice but before you go, consider my story: I was not a practicing Christian when I became a parent. I commit long-term and I don't mess around. The only physical relationship I ever had was with the man I almost married the father of my teenager. But he was an abusive man and the Lord helped us escape that relationship soon after the birth of my child. I returned to Christ and was baptized when my child was 3 years old. Biological father is not in the picture. I have regained so much healing these last 12 years as I diligently sought to work through my past baggage. After a couple of false starts in dating, I got serious and I chose not to date through my 20's and early 30's specifically so I could reach the goal of being baggage-free. I have so much love to give, much more confidence, respect and trust than before. It's so awesome living the life of an Overcomer!!! My story has been publicly shared in small gatherings and before large audiences.

Now if you can find a never-married childless woman who has worked as hard as I have to be healthy emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually-- then I praise God with you. But I'm guessing that you don't read this kind of testimony very often in other females' profiles. Maybe here you've just encountered a real person, and a real woman, who has a lot to offer a real man. All the glory for this belongs to God.

Wow, still with me? Impressive! :)

I am a very proud mama of an awesome musician, author, and linguist, age 15. My child is a new Christian and is growing strong in the faith. Natural leader, service-oriented, up front frequently in music performance or speaking roles. My child had the lead role in the school play in May 2015 and I look forward to seeing this talent shine on stage more often in the future!

I am looking to marry my best friend! Looking for a man who knows his purpose in life, who loves serving Jesus Christ. He wants to court a real lady with a thirst for adventure, who for sure won't leave him bored! I really enjoy the company of a man who wants to take time with me...He will enjoy seeing my spontaneous silly side emerge from my shell if he invests time into our friendship. In me, he would have a spouse that enjoys giving/receiving physical touch. He like me is saving sex for marriage and prior to marriage he would agree to nonsexual physical touch as is comfortable to give in public view. A man is attractive to me when he is not afraid to discuss compatibility issues early on. Like me, he's tired of modern dating and sees the value of accountability in his romantic life. He supports being friends for 2-3 years before being more than friends. He likes the thought of Skyping with me early on if distance is an issue. Isn't that closer to the real way you meet someone? He prays for his future spouse and asks God to help him choose his wife God's way not the world's way.

Are you serious and proactive about your Christian faith? Looking for friends first and then see where God leads from there? No mind games? Appreciate respectful and deep conversation? If you like what you see, don't be shy--say hi and see what the Lord will do. :) May Jesus Christ lead your search, and let Him become your greatest desire.

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Basic Information

GenderFemale
LocationJoshua, TX, USA
Age35

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About Me

Height5' 3" (160 cm)
BuildFull-figured
HairLight Brown
EyesBrown
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI am open to all possibilities
Children1
Children home1
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkUniversity Finance
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

Self-descriptionMusical. Artistic. Enjoy physical activity. Adventurous! :)
MusicClassical, Gospel/Religious Music, World
Favorite bands and musiciansShannon Wexelberg, Anonymous Four, Simple Gifts of the Northwest
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Western
Favorite movies and actorsMy flesh likes movies a lot. That's why I rarely watch movies except wholesome/religious films.
Favorite TV showsI gave away my TV. Sometimes I watch SDA television online, nature/creation science shows
Outdoor activityBasketball, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityAerobics, Art, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Games, Music, Opera/Theater
My idea of a great tripViewing the wildflowers of the Texas Hill Country. Roughing it outdoors :) Quality time with you?
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsI like vegetarian/vegan food from all over the world. Prefer dark green salad options!
PoliticsConservative
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 33 and 43 years old
DistanceAny
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
EthnicityCaucasian / White, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

I prefer quiet settings around nature where he and I can have good conversation, such as walking a nature trail or having a picnic in a park. I believe that if the man and I decide to seek God's Will FIRST about spending time alone together, we won't feel short-changed. We will be happy no matter what the setting.

My past relationships have taught me...

Christ's standards should attract a like-minded couple to grow closer. If it drives a wedge between them, no amount of fondness can bridge that gulf. Guard your hearts!

I have also learned that an intuitive man is the best match for me.

Speak and act with respect. Keep discovering the hidden character treasures of the person you are with, and keep admiring and complimenting specific things about that person. A man won't always understand my feelings so I need to keep my wonderful female friendships strong to meet my emotional needs. Don't be afraid of a man's need to isolate into his "man-cave". In a relationship, emotional availablity, personal accountability, and communication skills are crucial, as well as mutual respect of personal boundaries.

To me, being an Adventist means...

More than the Fundamental Beliefs. The title of Seventh-Day Adventist to me should speak more about a true heart conversion, and the resulting closeness to the Father just as Sister White kept proclaiming. I believe that when we let Christ show us our brokenness, and we seek wholeness in Him, then He fills us with His healing, His joy, His wisdom, His peace, His forgiveness, His patience, His courage, His selflessness. It is out of the overflow of Christ in us that we serve our fellow man, it's this overflow that gives us something to offer this world.

I also have a missionary heart. I believe that showing kindness, meeting needs, and befriending is paramount, and then the door is open to share
the Gospel with them.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Too many to list...working on material from Straight to the Heart Ministries, so there are many Bible verses to study. The verses that show me how Jesus connects with my story are moving and powerful, healing, life-changing. I'm grateful for this increasing love for God's Holy Word.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I have a burden to raise awareness among Adventist Christian singles: I urge you to search for your spouse with spiritual compatiblity in mind. I praise God that I was taught this basic life principle back in my early 20's--it saved me from making mistakes in my dating life. I cannot overstate its importance to a Christ-centered relationship.

Spiritual compatibility includes complementary God-given strengths, similar theology, and same direction in mission. Marriage creates a powerful partnership--your ability to carry out the Great Comission is enhanced because you are now a team. God puts man and wife together to accomplish through Him what they would not accomplish as singles. Marriage is not for our glory, it's for God's glory. In marriage when both serve their spouse, we learn how to be more Christlike and how to resist rogue thinking and self-centeredness. Love is a verb. Love is acting in the best interest of the other regardless of how you yourself may feel. And love honors personal boundaries. It's my belief that when the spiritual compatiblity is right between a courting man and woman, these other components will fall into place. Please pray about this and ask God to bless your mind with His wisdom in this most personal area of your life. Thank you for reading my profile! May Jesus Christ lead your search; and may He become your greatest desire.

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April 2016

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