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I'm a songbird that loves Jesus, a real lady, a seeker of Truth, love to smile and help people. Old-fashioned value system. Love ministry! And I'm learning that in serving God, His strength is made perfect in my weakness, that perfect love casts out fear. I work in higher education, in a finance position. I have a missionary's heart. I thank God for shaking me out of complacency, to behold the world's need for Christ, and to respond. I decided to be content in God's plan for me. God can send me anywhere to serve Him.

I am on this site to offer stimulating conversation, no-pressure just be yourself friendship. I am happy to make friendships here with godly marriage-minded men. If you're impatient and looking for quick romance, then sorry I am not the woman for you. The goal I seek is the fun and adventure of a godly Christian courtship with a marriage-minded man. I have kissed dating goodbye :)


Basic Information

LocationJoshua, TX, USA


About Me

Height5' 3" (160 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairLight Brown
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI am open to all possibilities
Children home1
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkUniversity Administrative Assistant
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionMusical. Artistic. Enjoy physical activity. Adventurous! :)
MusicClassical, Gospel/Religious Music, World
Favorite bands and musiciansShannon Wexelberg, Anonymous Four, Simple Gifts of the Northwest
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Western
Favorite movies and actorsMy flesh likes movies a lot. That's why I rarely watch movies except wholesome/religious films.
Favorite TV showsI gave away my TV. Sometimes I watch SDA television online, nature/creation science shows
Outdoor activityBasketball, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityAerobics, Art, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Games, Music, Opera/Theater
My idea of a great tripViewing the wildflowers of the Texas Hill Country. Roughing it outdoors :) Quality time with you?
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsI like vegetarian/vegan food from all over the world. Prefer dark green salad options!
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 34 and 45 years old
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other



What I'd like to do on a first date...

When two good friends decide to take the next stage to courtship, it's an exciting event. And much easier than an introductory first date! A courting man and woman already learned that they have compatibility, they already know a lot about each other's likes and dislikes and favorite activities. So if I was in a courtship, what to me would approximate a "first date?" When this time will come for me, I believe that if the man and I decide to seek God's Will FIRST about spending time alone together, the Lord will give the guidance we seek. I choose not to take the steering wheel. And when we follow God's Will for alone time together, we won't feel short-changed--we could look back later (whether this leads to marriage or not) and both think, "I wouldn't trade that experience for anything!"

My past relationships have taught me...

Christ's standards should attract a like-minded couple to grow closer. If it drives a wedge between them, no amount of fondness can bridge that gulf. Guard your hearts!

It sometimes takes a failed relationship to usher in the most spiritual growth. I believe that when we let Christ show us our brokenness, and we seek wholeness in Him, then He fills us with His healing, His joy, His wisdom, His peace, His forgiveness, His patience, His courage, His selflessness. It is out of the overflow of Christ in us that we serve our fellow man, it's this overflow that gives us something to offer this world.

I am expressive but not so much about how I feel. I learned that expressing my emotions is important to the man, that my logical bent can be actually hurtful when I did not intend to offend. I've been working hard to be more emotionally-available, also to be more tender and affirming towards everyone in my sphere of influence. My future spouse will reap the benefits of this work in progress.

RE: My only child, if a godly man is interested in me, it's a package deal--he cannot accept one without the other. All parties involved must respect the bonding process...it is worth taking time to see if coupleness can equate to familiness.

To me, being an Adventist means...

More than the Fundamental Beliefs. The title of Seventh-Day Adventist to me should speak more about a true heart conversion, and the resulting closeness to the Father just as Sister White kept proclaiming. Besides Biblical literacy and zeal to share the Gospel, that person knows God well and comes to Him with everything in his or her life. Chooses forgiveness over bitterness, relishes the Sabbath, and is willing to be made willing to serve however the Lord sees fit. I am not this kind of Adventist all the time, but that's who I want to be. I remain grateful anyway! :) I choose to trust God's refining process in my life.

My favorite Bible passage is...

I love the Bible. :) It is relevant, vital for healthy mind, body, and soul. I even listen to the Bible and this method surprisingly has planted a lot of verses in my heart over the years. I have many favorite Bible verses. John 15:15-16 is special to me. It means that Jesus does not simply seek adoration and adhearance--He wants relationship with you and me! I also sing acapella Psalm 139:7-12 on occasion to bless someone special to me.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

A woman like me is rare--I know my worth but it's up to you to discover it :) Thanks for visiting my profile! May God guide you in your plans and in your search.

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