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I am a first generation SDA and love where God has guided me. I have been a SDA for over 6 years now and attend church on a weekly basis. Since becoming a SDA, I find it interesting to see so many variant degrees to SDA practices across the realm of the church. I've seen the pendulum swing from far right legalism all the way to the far left of non-biblical liberalism and Sunday spiritualism. I prefer the pillars of our faith to remain intact, but without fearful legalism and lack of common Biblical reasoning.

I am looking for someone who truly understands what it means to be called out of Babylon, or what I call the "Fog Bank" of Satan's deception. Many in the church understand this concept, but few have lives who can testify they understand from experience. If you have had prior experience with Sunday keeping, then you know we are now where Christ wants us. That experience and knowledge is important to me, since I am throwing life preservers to those still stuck in Satan's "Fog bank" and want a partner who wishes to do the same. Do you feel the call?

You will find me a romantic at heart since I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm open, honest, tech savvy, smart and my friends will tell you I am a loyal and trustworthy friend who doesn't take himself too seriously. I enjoy laughter and good times with family and friends. If you want a man who isn't afraid to commit, who will not play games, is honest, compassionate, warm, caring, appreciative, affectionate, and is looking for a long term, monogamous relationship that leads to marriage then please drop me a line. I'm waiting for you.

You will find that I am an evolving vegan vegetarian with 70% raw. I work out 4 times a week and hope you enjoy cooking and fixing meals together in the kitchen at times.. I love the outdoors, watching chipmunks scamper playfully across campgrounds, traveling, RVing and hope you do as well.

I want a woman who is confident with who she is and is not afraid to show her needs and vulnerabilities, as this is how I am as well. I promise I will not violate your trust...

Life is hard, so if you come with bumps and bruises that life has a tendency to give us all, then know I have experienced many setbacks myself and am very compassionate and understanding... Oh, and one more thing... If you are looking for marriage, there is one important factor you need to consider. Moving forward with the rest of my life, divorce is not an option for me. So if divorce is in your vocabulary and you're not in it for the long haul, then with all due respect, please pass me by.


Basic Information

LocationNewberg, OR, USA


About Me

Height5' 10" (177 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairStrawberry Blonde
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home1
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkSoftware QA Engineer - retired
EthnicityCaucasian / White


Fun Facts

MusicBlues, Classical, Dance/Disco, Jazz
MovieAction/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction
Favorite movies and actorsThe Man in the Moon, Secret, Anne of Green Gable
Favorite TV showsFrasier, Burn Notice, White Colar
Outdoor activityBiking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Indian, Japanese, Korean, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsSwagats Indian, Golden Crown, Most Thai Restaurants, Blossoming Lotus
Schools attendedMt Hood CC, Portland State University, Oregon State University
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 50 and 63 years old
DistanceWithin 300 miles of Newberg, OR, USA
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 5' 10" (177 cm)
Body TypeAverage
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Whatever makes us both feel at ease. i.e. walking in a park, having coffee, tea, green smoothies, or something to snack on while getting to know each other. We can discuss this after we've talked a little..

My past relationships have taught me...

The most important thing I've learned is that Both, need to put Christ first in their life. If this is the case, then Christ will direct what needs changing to make for a harmonious marriage. Both of us are borrowed from God and need to be respected and nurtured to become the best of what God intends for the both of us.

Good communication is a must. Without a proper and fair two way conversation, a relationship cannot be built or nurtured.

Disagreements will happen in a marriage, and when this occurs, we need to be careful that unresolved issues do not fester into resentment or alienation because this will poison a harmonious marriage.

Also, one very important thing we need to understand is that we all make mistakes. An unforgiving spirit will ruin a relationship. Forgiveness of wrongs is a must for any relationship to survive. Besides, I can make a lot mistakes so I will be asking for forgiveness quite often. LOL. ;)

To me, being an Adventist means...

Since I am a first generation Adventist, becoming a SDA shows me that Christ is leading my life to where He wants me to be. I was happy setting in my old Sunday church until Christ brought the truths given to the SDA into my living room. I am now a SDA and have been one for over 6 years. I never really felt like I belonged in any churches I've attended, but since becoming a SDA, I now feel I'm home.

Also, one more thing that ALL SDA believers must understand...

There has never been... or will ever be again in all of Eternity... a creation made by God that has the privilege of being used by Him to help eradicate the lies about His character and to speak in God's defense. Sin will one day be no more.

We as SDA have the privilege of correcting the wrong beliefs about the character of God to those who are being deceived by Satan, and exposing Satan for who and what he truly is... A Liar! So we need to take it seriously when we reach out to the world about Christ and take up the cause for present day truths. So how are we as SDA doing to fulfill this honorable task?

One last thing... I've learned a very important concept that many of God's children need to grasp. As impatient as we can be when we want something... It is always so much more rewarding if we wait on God's timing. By waiting on His time, we will find that all things are properly put into place.

In five years, I see myself

Seriously, I will be closer to Christ than I am today. For years I have prayed that God would re-create me into the man He wants me to be..

In my past I have frustrated God's progress in my life, but I'm dedicated in allowing Him to finish the work He has started in me and He is answering my prayer.

I am a work in progress, not to imply I have issues, I just want to be the best I can be for my Lord and I have asked God to place me on His potter wheel to recreate me and He is doing so... I want to be a vessel that He can use for His vindication and glory and He cannot use us if we are not surrendered to Him. If we truly want to be used by our Lord, we must bury our pride and be teachable.

I will continue to be a conduit for spreading the Three Angels Messages to a deceived world, and if it is God's will, which I hope it is, I will also have the love of my life to share these final days with, serving our Lord.

My favorite Bible passage is...

The whole of Psalms 25. This chapter has helped me through many a disappointing moment. It's my go to chapter in time of need. God's word has always come through for me when I needed Him. God's word is my oxygen.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Please do not mistake the following as bragging as you will understand as you read onward...

I've tasted many interesting experiences in my life... I've been a drummer in several rock bands and did small tours in both Canada and the USA when I was younger.

I've worked for 12 years in one of the most prestigious software companies in the world. I am founder and owner of two online ministries; CoronalWinds Radio, an online Internet radio ministry which plays Electronic music, and RoadToBetterLiving an End Time Bible Prophecy website, both of which I run out of my home. I am also in the process of creating another online web site which will be an online prayer request/answer journal and personal growth and diary creation site, called MyDailyRoadMap.

I feel I need to clarify something here.. All my efforts at website building is not to make money for myself... It's to put to use the talents God gave me for His work. I have dedicated the rest of my life to spreading the Good News About Christ and His Present Day Truths. All my future efforts will be dedicated to that and not to making money. I just felt I needed this clarified. Now back to our program...

I've tried hang gliding, I've experienced gold fever and now I understand how that feels... I've experienced the frustrations and much joy of raising a child. Children really teach you a lot about yourself, don't they? :o)

Now my life may not compare to others who have had a more eventful exciting life, but even with the fulfilling experiential life that I've had, nothing and I repeat, nothing compares to the joy of discovering that God truly exists. Serving God now, far surpasses anything I've done in the past. Sadly, mistakes can still happen while we walk with the Lord. When a mistake happens, we must acknowledge it, study it, confess it and make sure we understand the cause of our mistake so it doesn't happen again... We must then move on.

I've been divorced now for over 9 years and feel it's time to once again embrace sharing this life journey with someone I love. If you can relate to anything I've written here and consider yourself a potential match, I hope we get a chance to meet soon...

Thank you for taking time to read this long section of my profile. It shows you are inquisitive and patient. I look forward to meeting you some day.

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