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I'm a tech savvy, smart, fun loving, Christ centered man that loves to camp in my motor home, enjoy the ocean and mountains, enjoy keeping active, enjoy garage or thrift shopping and most of all, I delight in spending time with loved ones and friends. I am a romantic at heart and wear my heart on my sleeve, I'm open, honest and my friends will tell you I am a trustworthy, loyal friend.

I'm an Adventist man who attends church on a weekly basis and believes and follows Jesus Christ, which is the plumb line of my life. I am very serious about my relationship with Christ, and my potential companion must also feel the same. I am looking for a companion that will last the rest of my life, so if you are looking for the same then we need to talk.

I am confident and comfortable with who I am and look forward to meeting a woman who feels the same. If you would like to meet someone who isn't afraid to commit, who does not play games, is honest, trustworthy, warm, caring, appreciative, affectionate, and is looking for a long term, monogamous relationship that leads to marriage then please drop me a line.

I am looking for an honest, loving, trustworthy, warm, affectionate and caring woman. I am an evolving vegetarian. I hope you enjoy cooking and enjoy cooking together in the kitchen at times.. It would be nice if you enjoyed the outdoors, traveling and RVing. I would like to do more hiking and hope you enjoy the same.

I want a woman who is confident in who she is and is not afraid to show her needs and vulnerabilities, as this is how I am as well. I promise I will not violate your trust... I promise.

Oh, and one more thing... If you are thinking of moving towards a relationship with me, there is one important factor you need to consider, and that is this, moving forward with the rest of my life, divorce is not an option for me. So if divorce is in your vocabulary moving forward in your life, then with all due respect, please pass me by.


Basic Information

LocationNewberg, OR, USA


About Me

Height5' 10" (177 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairStrawberry Blonde
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home1
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkSoftware QA Engineer - retired
EthnicityCaucasian / White


Fun Facts

MusicBlues, Classical, Dance/Disco, Jazz
MovieAction/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction
Favorite movies and actorsThe Man in the Moon, Secret, Anne of Green Gable
Favorite TV showsFrasier, Burn Notice, White Colar
Outdoor activityBiking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Indian, Japanese, Korean, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsSwagats Indian, Golden Crown, Most Thai Restaurants, Blossoming Lotus
Schools attendedMt Hood CC, Portland State University, Oregon State University
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 54 and 63 years old
DistanceWithin 300 miles of Newberg, OR, USA
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 5' 10" (177 cm)
Body TypeAverage
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Whatever makes us both feel at ease. i.e. walking in a park, having coffee, tea, green smoothies, or something to snack on while getting to know each other. We can discuss this after we've talked a little..

My past relationships have taught me...

Good communication is a must. Without a proper and fair two way conversation, a relationship cannot be built or nurtured. Monologues do not make for good conversation, so please no monologues. I prefer two way conversations where both feel they are heard and appreciated. ;o)

Picking the right time to talk about an issue is important so a problem can be resolved, since unresolved issues can fester into resentment or alienation.

Also, we all make mistakes. An unforgiving spirit will ruin a relationship. Forgiveness of wrongs is a must for any relationship to survive. Besides, I can make a lot mistakes so I may be asking for forgiveness quite often. LOL.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Since I am a first generation Adventist, being a SDA means that Christ is leading my life to where He wants me to be. I was happy setting in my old Sunday church until Christ brought the truths given to the SDA into my living room. I am now a SDA and have been one for over 6 years. I never felt like I belonged in any other churches I've attended, but since becoming a SDA, I now feel I'm home.

Also, one more thing we need to understand...

There has never been, or will ever be again, a creation of God that has the privilege of being used by God to help eradicate the lies of Satan and speak in defense of God's character. Sin will one day be no more. We as SDA have the privilege of negating the wrong beliefs about God's character, having not seen Him, and exposing Satan for who he truly is, a liar. So we need to take it seriously when we reach out to the world about Christ and take up the cause for present day truths. So let's get busy!

In five years, I see myself

Seriously, I will be closer to Christ than I am today. For years I have prayed that God would re-create me into the man He wants me to be..

In my past I have frustrated God's progress in my life, but I'm dedicated in allowing Him to finish the work He has started in me and He is answering my prayer.

I am a work in progress, not to imply I have issues, I just want to be the best I can be for my Lord and I have asked God to place me on His potter wheel to recreate me and He is doing so... I want to be a vessel that He can use for His vindication and glory and He cannot use us if we are not surrendered to Him.

If we truly want to be used by our Lord, we must bury our pride and be teachable.

My favorite Bible passage is...

The whole of Psalms 25. This chapter has helped me through many a disappointing moment. It's my go to chapter in time of need. God's word has always come through for me when I needed Him. God's word is my oxygen.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Please do not mistake the following as bragging as you will understand as you read onward...

I've tasted many interesting experiences in my life... I've been a drummer in several rock bands and did small tours in both Canada and the USA when I was younger.

I've worked for 12 years in one of the most prestigious software companies in the world. I am founder and owner of two online ministries; CoronalWinds Radio, an online Internet radio ministry which plays Electronic Ambient music, and RoadToBetterLiving an End Time Bible Prophecy website.

I've tried hang gliding, I've experienced gold fever and now I understand how that feels... I've experienced the frustrations and much joy of raising a child. Children really teach you a lot about yourself, don't they? :o)

Now my life may not compare to others who have had a more eventful exciting life, but even with the fulfilling experiential life that I've had, nothing and I repeat, nothing compares to the joy of discovering that God truly exists. Serving God now, far surpasses anything I've done in the past. Sadly, mistakes can still happen while we walk with the Lord. When a mistake happens, we must acknowledge it, study it, confess it and make sure we understand the cause of our mistake so it doesn't happen again... We must then move on. I've been divorced now for over 9 years and feel it's time to once again embrace sharing this life journey with someone I love. If you can relate to anything I've written here and consider yourself a potential match, I hope we get a chance to meet soon...

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