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"It's ever so much more satisfying to get into a blissful place and attract a blissful person and live blissfully hereafter than to be in a negative place and attract a negative partner and then try to get happy from that negative place." Abraham Hicks

New friendships are always welcome.


Basic Information

LocationSomewhere, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 9" (175 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenAsk me
Children home3
Religious Involvementon special occasions
EducationSome College
Field of WorkJill-of-all-trades
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionCalifornia hippie, flower child, peace-loving, liberal, 4th-generation vegan/vegetarian
MusicBlues, Classical, Contemporary, Country/Western, Folk, Jazz, Oldies, Reggae, Gospel/Religious Music, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
Favorite bands and musiciansSelah, The Isaacs, Daniel O'Donnell, Dallas Holm, Norah Jones, Don Francisco,
MovieComedy, Documentary, Drama, Musical, Romance
Favorite movies and actorsMamma Mia, Harvey, Tangled, August Rush, Patch Adams, Medicine Man, Sound of Music, People Will Talk
Favorite TV showsI grew up without TV and it doesn't happen much at our house...doesn't occur to me.
Outdoor activityBiking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Sunbathing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityMusic
My idea of a great tripGetting into the culture, getting to know the people, getting off the beaten path and experiencing!
FoodChinese, Greek, Italian, Jewish/Kosher, Mediterranean, Mexican, Southwestern, Spanish, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsAny
PoliticsOpen Minded
Schools attendedElementary Church School, Boarding Academy, Parochial College and Public College
TimelinessI am usually a little late
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Waiting for inspiration...

My past relationships have taught me...

It's worth waiting for the right one, the right match. I'd rather be single than in an ill-advised marriage. That unequally-yoked thing is far more important than could be put into words, and is more than simply having similar church membership. High personal integrity and an empathic spirit towards others are a must. Being connected with God and sensitive to His voice and the Spirit is essential, and at the core of everything else. We can't give to others what we don't have within ourselves. It is important to take time and know God's direction clearly.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Knowing God, walking with Him, talking with Him, learning from Him, and seeing others through His eyes...to love as He would...Setting fears aside and being willing to give it ALL to Him...Looking forward with every fiber of my being to His soon return. Even so, Lord Jesus, come.

The Sabbath is one of the greatest gifts God has given to humanity. It's a gift, not a burden. He comes and meets with us in the garden of our lives without fail as the sun sets on Friday. There are cultural details about Sabbath which I treasure as a 4th or 5th generation Adventist, and these details enhance the spiritual communion that God Himself brings to us when we wait for Him with open hearts.

There's a whole lot of religion in a loaf of good homemade bread. ;)

In five years, I see myself

Live and enjoy life with an open spirit...

My favorite Bible passage is...

"Be still and know that I am God." Ps. 46:10 - There are many depths, many levels, to the practice of "being still" within one's spirit, regardless of the storms that may be swirling and howling outside. Learning and practicing the art of being still inwardly is an ongoing process for each of us, not a place at which we "arrive."

"I'll show up and take care of you as I promised and bring you back home. I know what I'm doing. I have it all planned out - plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for." Jeremiah 29:11 (The Message) - Whatever we go through here on earth, He will bring all the broken pieces of our experiences, our heartbreaks and our joys all together and create us into what we could never imagine. He will lift us up whole before the Father, presenting us as complete, and will wipe every tear away from our eyes. His eyes are gentle and filled with love; His touch brings peace in any situation. He can be trusted.

"For I, says the Lord, will be a wall of fire all around her, and I will be the glory in her midst." Zechariah 2:5 - Beautiful! This is my prayer.

"They shall walk after the Lord. He will roar like a lion." Hosea 4:10 - Waiting for His roar...

And finally, as this passage most aptly expresses my heart and reflects the reason for my username, "SeekingHisWill"...

Colossians 3:8-16 - But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him, where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave nor free, but Christ is all and in all. Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Connection with others is what life is about here on earth. Laughter is one of the greatest gifts to humanity. Those who can find reason to laugh in any situation are truly gifted. Music is essential to the soul, both as food for the spirit, and as expression when words fail.

It is rare that I have the time to commit to IM...usually just passing through. Also, I never "click yes" on anyone...no particular reason, I just don't.

Contact me only if you are a fellow seeker after the heart of God and interested in friendship. I am not a prude, but I AM His...

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