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I have always wanted a family that would reflect the ideal of being blessed by God. With love within, and reflecting out. Joy and peace. And the dream remains. I am divorced, with two grown children. I now feel free to pursue a relationship in God's way, to build a home on the firm foundation of God's word. I work hard, and then .... enjoy the outdoors for the created beauty that is to be found, and the exercise that can be enjoyed. I am looking for a youthful, energetic person to share a loving and Christian home with.


Basic Information

LocationBakersfield, CA, USA


About Me

Height6' 0" (182 cm)
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationDoctoral degree
Field of WorkMedical
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish, French, Other


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionShy, optimistic, conservative, waiting on my Lord
MusicGospel/Religious Music
Outdoor activityBiking, Photography, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Water Skiing/Windsurfing
Indoor activityCars, Reading
My idea of a great tripSnorkle, or waves, but water of course.
FoodAmerican, Indian, Italian, Korean, Mediterranean, Mexican, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan, Vietnamese
Favorite restaurantsThai and Mediterainian
Schools attendedCollege and Postgraduate
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 50 and 67 years old
DistanceWithin 100 miles of Bakersfield, CA, USA
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 5' 10" (177 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average
EducationAssociate degree, Professional degree, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week
EthnicityCaucasian / White



What I'd like to do on a first date...

I would like to spend time with her, where we could visit, and interact without a lot of interruptions, such as a hike in the mountains, or a quiet restaurant. If there is distance, I am not afraid of visiting on the phone. And i can travel.

My past relationships have taught me...

That vulnerability is a gift, and when received it is most precious. Im not afraid of vulnerability, but still remain on the shy side. Communication is most important and I mean listening and expressing. That forgiveness cannot be expected but should be given freely. I believe in the Golden Rule, and that it should be practiced rather than expected. In a special relationship, a God centered life, is a principled life, is a life that can be built on for eternity, and is where i would anticipate the greatest joy.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Jesus is coming soon, the Seventh day has always been Gods holy day, and its a great big family. There really was a flood. Our sins are forgiven by faith in Christ's sacrifice, and not by ritual works of the ceremonial law. I believe this is what is meant in Galatians, as the Sacrificial system was a shut door. Taken any other way is to say that there is no longer a Moral Law. The Bible is the authoritative word of God, and is sufficient to guide all decisions in church and home. We will have eternal life, and not perish, because God has given us His Son.

In five years, I see myself

I am in excellent health, and plan to continue working, and enjoying life to the max for another ten years.

My favorite Bible passage is...

John 3:16, because we now know where we are from, who we are, and where we will some day dwell.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I'm so not perfect. How I need a daily connection and commitment to my Saviour. I would look for someone who desires to conservative Christian home.

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