I would like our first date to be on a Friday and welcome the Sabbath together; spend the whole day in Sabbath School and Church. Maybe showing you off, maybe not, but will probably will. The rest of the Sabbath will be together in nature, being by the ocean,be at the beach or in the local nature areas. (Assuming that it is in my locale, but we can do similar Sabbath activities at your location.) We'll complete our plans for the rest of the time together.

It will be important that we would be smiling and laughing. There will be enough and appropriate time to be serious. Remember I would be showing you off and want people see Christ in us.

The first date should/would set the standard for the relationship.

God MUST the common denominator which will put life in perspective. Our marriage vows were made to God to take care of each; that same living in Him will make every relationship succeed. Did we have differences of opinion, yes; but the marriage was perfect, on earth. Our life was a love story from. When we see each other as children of God, then we become important to each other since we are His own.

Together putting God first will result in success. Guaranteed in God's own handwriting and in blood.

Knowing that I am important; knowing that my family is important; knowing than my sons are important - all because I am important in God's plans. Believe in the Bible as God's love letter, the Spirit of Prophecy helps me understand the Bible and most important of all, God loves me because Jesus died for me. All I have to do is accept and love Him.

Getting settled in my new direction: being the father my sons need, getting more active in Church and church school activities and growing spiritually.

If I have a serious relationship, then enjoying life with her.

Still living, still loving, still laughing.

I Peter 5:7 - give all my cares/anxieties to God, let Him care for me. During the last eight years, with my wife's illness, giving God control, allowed us to have the attitude of gratitude. We made lemons into lemonade and shared God's blessings with others. We used our situation in praising the Lord. Her illness was terminal, medicine was just slowing it down not healing. This we knew and made plans for her funeral. In all those days, we saw God's goodness for us. Hard to fathom unless you have had similar situations. Giving God our future allowed us to use our energy for each other.

Giving God my life helps me not to sweat the small stuff and not even to sweat any stuff. Giving God my future allows me to live and enjoy life fully. Giving God our future is the only way our relationship will grow so that we will be able to grow fully in our love. Giving God our future is the only way to make it to Heaven.

Free advice to the ladies out there: Chivalry is alive and can mix with romance...I am proof and example. I will treat you all like princesses that you are (Your mothers are the queens.) and should act and be treated that way. It would also show that I have good taste.

Here are five phrases with guaranteed results in your relationships. The men must be able to live all five, not 4 not 3. We will make good husbands.

(Make sure your men read the disclaimer at the end.)

1. You're right dear!
2. I am sorry dear!
3. It won't happen again dear!
4. Please forgive me dear!
5. I love you, do you still love me dear?

These needed attitudes do not take the place of flowers, chocolates,
washing dishes and opening doors. Men, we still have to be gentlemen;
Knights in shinning armor for our princesses.

Ladies, don't settle for less, you deserve the best -- you are Heaven's princesses.