On my first date, somerwhere netural where we both know and talk to each other about one another to see if where the chemical between us to (hopefully) get to know one another better. That's the approach I'd take and I this it the right way to start.

for starters first, if you're listed as someone looking for someone, you atleast show some respect and answer every person that contact you whether you like him or not. one thing for me, I've written a contact note or a smile and etc. and never got a single word back. not only that I've gotten a smile from a few(hoping that it's not the website people trying to get me to join and etc). and I contacted them hoping to get something back and never did. you must stop that if you don't answer why are you on the site?

again, being an adventist I thought almost all adventists are honest and sincere, but I'm learning they are somewhat like any other people. on the site to see what can you come up with, you are not looking for that honest man that would be with you through thick and thin, sick or well. this is twice I've been on the site and my last time if these things keep happening.

I'm hoping to meet a god fearing woman that could grow and glow toward heaven, learn from each other and eventually get married by five years.

I go and prepare a place for you! why? because I'm for sure one day he will be back to gather his flocks which have kept his commandments.

if you ladies contact me, atleast be a lady and say thank you entering my space but I'm sorry we have nothing in common or, yes I would like to see what we have in common. on the site for games--just curious, get off the site with that attitude or don't waste anyone time.