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To love and be loved...
To touch and be touched...
To appreciate and be appreciated...
To encourage and be encouraged
To hold and be held...
To kiss and be kissed...that is what I am in search of

I hope you enjoy reading my profile and realize that I am the guy that your parents will love, even in a modern version of "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner." :)

TRUE LOVE is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. On the contrary, it is calm and deep in nature. It looks beyond mere externals and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating. Its devotion is real and abiding. Love is victorious when argument is powerless. Love does not work for profit or reward. Love is diffusive in its nature and quiet in operation, yet strong and mighty in its purpose. Love causes hearts to melt and be transformed. Love should be cherished and cultivated, for its influence is divine!

I want to love, be loved, and be in love with my best friend, lover, and confidant. At this stage of my life I cannot and will not settle for anything less. I want to love her with abandon and cherish every waking moment we have together. When we are apart I want to think of no one but her and count the seconds until I can feel the warmth of her embrace again!

I am hopeless romantic with a heart of gold and a fun sense of humor. I love to cuddle and enjoy precious moment. Few things are more pleasurable than being close to a person with whom emotional bonds exist. I am a lover of the beach and nature. I love the outdoors. Not an urban dweller...much prefer to be in a rural setting smelling the trees than in an urban setting smelling the exhaust. Lover of art, favorite art form is sculpture.

I'm attracted to women with considerable intellect and ability to communicate.

I am looking for a kind, warm, loving woman. She must be a companion who epitomizes the woman depicted in Proverbs 31. In an ideal world I believe my perfect mate would possess a tolerable modicum of spontaneity, positivity in her thinking and planning, optimism in reaching her goals, forgiveness in her heart, love in her soul, an incredible sensuousness in her kiss, captivating beauty in her eyes, talent beyond her career, creativity in her personality, "Common Sense" that's not common but remains sensible, dignity and respect in her every move, purpose in her steps, prosperity in her vision, focus in her vision, strength in her reserve, and exclusivity in her embrace. She seesthe proverbial glass half-full with the potential to overflow!!!

***Bonus points for golf/tennis players!

I love children and ponder the joys of having a modern version of the "Brady Bunch" with a home centered in love.


Basic Information

LocationStirling City, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 10" (177 cm)
Relationship StatusDivorced
Children home2
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationMaster's degree
Field of WorkLegal
EthnicityBlack / African descent, Caucasian / White, Native American
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionFun, loving, hopeless romantic with a heart of gold
MusicClassical, Gospel/Religious Music
Outdoor activityBiking, Birdwatching, Gardening, Golf, Photography, Sailing, Tennis, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityArt, Cars, Charity/Volunteering, Music, Politics, Reading, Weightlifting
PoliticsOpen Minded
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 37 and 55 years old
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 5' 9" (175 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average
EducationAssociate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Religious Activityonce or twice a month, every week
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Middle Eastern, Other



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Have a picnic on the beach with my tent for shelter from the harsh rays of the sun. Listen to the lullaby of the ocean waves as we converse and get to know one another.

I'm not into the dinner and movie thing. I think that the theatre has been the most influential factor in the demise of the moral fabric of the world. How can you expect me to sit comfortably in front of a screen listening to profane language, watch implicit and explicit sexual acts as well as violence, especially in light of Psalms 102:3???

My past relationships have taught me...

That compromise has its costs. For love I'd do almost anything, I'd fly with a broken wing - that is far better than sitting on the sidelines nursing and guarding my heart. I prefer to love with abandon than be reserved and imprisoned by fear of rejection or being hurt again.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Knowing that I am entrusted with present truth to share with others. That the greatest need of humanity is the manifestation through humanity of the Savior's love.

In five years, I see myself

You'd be surprised!

My favorite Bible passage is...

To follow...

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I'm not a big fan of movies because they desensitize the wrongfulness of sin. I don't drink because I need all of the brain cells I have. I prefer music that is spiritually and mentally uplifting, hence my preference for classical music.

It is disappointing that so many women are attracted to a photo, but opt not to read a profile. Read and learn!

What are your thoughts on inter-racial relationship? Is the church more or less liberal? Just curious....