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Last Login: Mar 02, 2014
Let me start by saying that inspite of my member name, I am not confused. Although my life has taken a different course then I would have chosen, I am confident God has a plan and I just need to trust that in his timing. The truth is I was having a really difficult time coming up with a name so I used an old email I created at a time that I truely was confused many years ago.
So now that I have cleared that up... I am an ESFJ (Myers Briggs) which means I am caring, optimistic, honest, down to earth, fun-loving, hard-working gal who likes spending time with friends and family. I like camping, the beach, music, maybe some dancing :) As a hobby, I coupon to save money to spend on other fun vacations. I am looking for someone who is able to roll with life's punches with a sense of humor, someone who will be a strong spiritual leader, and someone interested in getting to know me for me, but who understands that I'm also a mother of 2. Hope that's not too much all at once, but I'm going for full disclosure here so as to not waste anyone's time.
|Location||Ooltewah, TN, USA|
|Height||5' 7" (170 cm)|
|About Children||I have children and would like more|
|Religious Involvement||every week|
|Field of Work||Physician Assistant|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Self-description||I can be shy at first, but very easy to talk to once you get to know me|
|Music||Contemporary, Gospel/Religious Music, Soft Rock|
|Favorite bands and musicians||third day, casting crowns, jaci velasquez, Sara Bareilles, Adele,|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Mystery, Romance, Suspense/Thriller|
|Favorite movies and actors||Matt Damon, Jim Caviezel|
|Favorite TV shows||Off the Map, Greys Anatomy, Private Practice, Hawaii 5-0, Person of Interest, Rookie Blue|
|Outdoor activity||Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, SCUBA Diving, Sunbathing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing|
|Indoor activity||Aerobics, Charity/Volunteering, Dancing, Movies/TV, Music, Restaurants, Shopping|
|My idea of a great trip||anywhere that involves a beach!|
|Food||Chinese, Fast food, Greek, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan|
|Favorite restaurants||PF Changs, Macaroni Grill, Thai Rain|
|Politics||Into the wind|
|Schools attended||Hinsdale Adventist Academy, Southern Adventist University, Kettering College of Medical Arts|
|Timeliness||I am usually a little late|
|As for fashion||I'm a somewhat fashionable person|
|Age||Between 27 and 40 years old|
|Distance||Within 100 miles of Ooltewah, TN, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 5" (165 cm) and 6' 11" (210 cm)|
|Religious Activity||every week|
Anything goes with me...if you have the guts to ask I'm up for it :) I guess anything that would allow for conversations to take place, don't get me wrong I love the movies, but you can't really get to know a person in hushed whispers in a theatre. You can never go wrong with starbucks and dessert...hint, hint...
That love is all about give and take. Both parties have to be fully committed to eachother and the creation of a safe, secure, supportive environment with an attitude of mutual respect. Both people need to be compromising, open minded, honest, open communicators and most importantly have an active connection to Christ. Without God, selfishness will set in and cloud the beauty a real committed marriage can bring. I also learned that you cannot go into dating/marriage looking for happiness or looking to make someone else happy because happiness comes from within, it comes from knowing God and feeling his love and acceptance. I have learned the importance of connecting on 3 different levels in a relationship, that there must be a physical, emotional and most importantly a spiritual connection. Without all three of these, the relationship will not be fulfilling for the long term.
As a predominantly white core color, it is very important that I am in a relationship with someone who does not create unnecessary conflict or confrontation. So if you have drama with your baby momma...I'm not the woman for you ;) And for those of you who may be a bit scared to date a woman with kids for fear of the same, my ex and I are very civil and have easily worked through our differences for the best of our kids. We are actually better co-parents then we were marriage partners...crazy but true!
Maintaining an active connection with God so that I can know that he is leading in my life. I look forward to relaxing in God's presence on Sabbath with my family and friends, taking in his glory through church, outdoor activities, mission activities, etc.
I am looking to find someone to share life's joys and sorrows with. Someone to share in the beauty of everyday life with my 2 wonderful children. Life is too short, so I just hope to make the best of everyday touching the lives of those around me by showing God's love.
Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight". It always reminds me that "my" way of thinking may not always be what God has in mind for me and that He longs to lead me to things more wonderful than I can even imagine if I continue to be willing to trust in him.
I don't consider myself high maintenance, but I do enjoy pampering myself with pedicures, massages and bubble baths ( I work in a fast paced high stress, pediatric ER) so I find it important to allow myself time to de-stress. I love driving fast, singing with the radio, line dancing and my vices are pretty much anything sweet - ice cream, cookie dough, and anything dark chocolate, especially chocolate covered marshmallow eggs...
Also, if you IM me and I don't get back to you it is probably because I am accessing my account from my phone and can't chat. Try me again later :)