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I am a transplanted Texan living in the PNW for over 10 years now. [Update: I'm in TX for an extended period of time. I'm looking forward to returning to the PNW asap because it's HOT down here. :-)] I love back-to-basic living and learning about all types of topics. I love kids and animals. I'm pretty easy going about things. I have a strong belief in God. I am very active in helping others to reach their potential and fulfilling God's purpose for them.

I am looking for someone who is serious about living out God's purpose for them. I am interested in finding someone who is serious about stretching beyond what they perceive as their limitations. Giving back to others is a passion of mine. I hope to find someone to work along side me showing God's love to the less fortunate. I see the things of Revelation happening on a daily basis. I hope to find someone to walk these last days of earth's history together.

Communication is essential for any relationship to work. Over the years, I have learned to communicate and listen effectively. I am interested in finding someone who can do the same with me.

Looks, education, etc are not as important as the character of a person. I do hope the person who God has picked out for me takes care of himself and follows any new health information to the best of their ability.


Basic Information

LocationPlano, TX, USA


About Me

Height5' 4" (162 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairDark Brown
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home1
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationMaster's degree
Field of Workcounselor/coach, writer/speaker
EthnicityNative American
Languages SpokenEnglish, Other


Fun Facts

MusicCountry/Western, Gospel/Religious Music
MovieComedy, Documentary, Drama, Romance
Favorite movies and actorsSeven Brides for Seven Brothers, Mr. Holland's Opus, It's a Wonderful Life,
Favorite TV showsBones, NCIS, (Rarely watch TV. Sometimes I will catch episodes on Hulu or Netflix.)
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityCharity/Volunteering, Computers, Reading
My idea of a great tripA road trip to see sites, camping in the wilderness.
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsTop of China
Schools attendedSouthwestern Adventist College, TX Women's University, Capella University
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 50 and 65 years old
DistanceWithin 500 miles of Plano, TX, USA
HeightBetween 5' 10" (177 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeAthletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusDivorced, Widowed
Religious Activityevery week
DrinkingNever, Rarely
EthnicityCaribbean, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American



What I'd like to do on a first date...

First date activities should be something you both enjoy but not where there cannot be conversation. A first date needs to be an opportunity for you to learn about each other. Is there sufficient interest for a second date? Some ideas for my ideal first date would be a picnic followed by a walk in the park or a local nature walking trail.

My past relationships have taught me...

Things I have learned from past relationships is that each of us need to be whole until ourselves. We need to be strong in our own identities without having to rely on the other person. We need to be strong in our own beliefs without trying to hitch a ride to heaven on the other person's coat tails. Relationships are not to be two half circles meeting to form one, but two complete circles intersecting.

The most important thing in a relationship is the ability to have effective communication. Communication is not just sharing what happened in your day, but what you think and feel, what are your dreams and aspirations. It is being open and vulnerable, trusting that the other person has your back.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Being an Adventist means that as a member of the Remnant church, I have a special responsibility to share God's message by living a life following the truth I have to the best of my ability. It means not shying away from sharing the hard truths when God clearly shows me that is what He wants me to do. It means being the best sermon others can see.

In five years, I see myself

Personally, I do not believe we will still be around in five years. However, we are to not to just become a hermit, waiting for Christ's return. So, my goals for the next five years:
-get some land where I can grow as much of my own food as possible
-get my business Kindling Dreams off the ground
-earn my doctorate in natural health (or related topic)
- travel, travel, travel

My favorite Bible passage is...

Isa 65:24 'And before they call, I will answer; yet while they are speaking, I will hear.'

Jer 29:11 'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.'

I have many favorites but the first one reminds me that God's answer is on the way even if I do not see any part of it. It reminds me that evil angels often fight with God's messengers to try to keep them from bringing the answers. God always wins.

The second verse reminds me that God has a great purpose for each of us. He wants us to be happy and fulfilled while living out His purpose. Sometimes we get bogged down in the daily grind of life's troubles. This verse offers hope that God has a better future for us, if we follow His guidance.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Because I love to learn, I am always studying various topics. I love to take this information and create programs to share with others. It is all about helping others overcome challenges and achieve God' purpose. I just finished my counseling internship with a goal of using whole body methods to help people spiritually, physically, mentally, and emotionally. I have studied alternative medicines for almost as long as I have been an Adventist (30 yrs) so I can help people achieve their potential using God's nature. I love to take pictures of nature.

To let the reader know more about me:

Meyers-Briggs - INFJ
Life Languages - Influencer, Contemplater, Doer (top 3)
Love Language - Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation
Temperament - Choleric Sanguine (mainly Choleric)

I feel I have a lot to offer the person God has for me. If interested, I would love to get to know you better.

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Enjoying nature

Core Color = Red

  •   red: 38%
  •   blue: 34%
  •   white: 16%
  •   yellow: 12%

Reds Are

Action orientedAssertive