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Introduction

My friends describe me as friendly, caring, kind and a good person. I am looking for a man who understands that communication and honesty are vital to any relationship whether it is in the beginning as a date or if the relationship has progressed. I want a confident man who is not afraid to be himself. It would be nice to find someone who can fix anything around the house.

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Basic Information

GenderFemale
LocationBolingbrook, IL, USA
Age51

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About Me

Height4' 10" (147 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairDark Brown
EyesBrown
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children3
Children home0
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of Workhistology technician/ caregiver
EthnicityAsian
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

Self-descriptionopen minded. my friends say I am nice and real. I would love to ride with someone on a Harley again
MusicClassic Rock, Contemporary, Country/Western, Dance/Disco, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Opera, Gospel/Religious Music, Rock n Roll, Soft Rock, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
Favorite bands and musiciansCasting Crowns, Truth, Boston, Chicago
MovieAction/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Musical
Favorite movies and actorsgod father 1&2, sound of music
Favorite TV showshttp, criminal minds, hgtv
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Sports/Athletics
Indoor activityCars, Movies/TV, Music, Politics, Reading, Sports
My idea of a great tripall inclusive, hotel, beach
FoodCajun/Southern, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mediterranean, Mexican, Persian, Southwestern, Thai
PoliticsOpen Minded
Schools attendeduic, Andrews university
TimelinessI am usually a little late
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 46 and 58 years old
DistanceAny
HeightBetween 5' 7" (170 cm) and 6' 5" (195 cm)
Body TypeAverage, I'll tell you later
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityonce or twice a month, every week
SmokingNever

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

A great dinner and great conversation would be an ideal date. A walk in the park or public place after dinner is a great way to open up and get to know a person better with no pressure.

My past relationships have taught me...

My past relationships have taught me not to be bitter because I must let go of the good to get to the best. I must know who I am, like who I am and know where I stand and what my values are so I do not compromise. I have learned not to ignore Red Flags.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Having a close relationship with God and following His will is what I desire because of His willingness to be with me and because He loves me in spite of all my faults. Having a "heart religion" is important to me. I love Him because He loved me first and desire to do as He does...not just a checklist of what an Adventist should be. Having the knowledge of the Sabbath truth and looking to Jesus' second coming are the basic beliefs that make me an Adventist. The spirit of prophecy is a privilege and a responsibility that needs to be shared.

In five years, I see myself

I plan on being the best adolescent therapist that I can become. But my most important accomplishment would be to grow in
Christ and be an even better loving mother to my children.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Psalm 121:1
I lift my eyes unto the hills.
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord,
The Creator of heaven and earth.
This verse kept my faith alive in one of the darkest time of my life...when I couldn't see the future beyond my nose.
When the hurt felt unbearable, this promise sustained me. It became my mantra every time I felt I was in despair. Not only is my help from the Lord, but He asked me to look up to see Him. My help is from the Creator Himself so I could not deny that He was able to bring me out of the darkest point in my life create a better life for me beyond my loss. This verse gave me hope.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

To add, I want someone who understands that a relationship is a series of understanding each other's point of view and coming to a balanced, healthy compromise.
And, if you haven't already noticed, I love to write novels! LOL!!!

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