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Introduction

First of all, I try to be kind to others and consider their feelings. If you are not that kind of person, please stop reading now! We are not right for each other. I am a Christian and that belief system informs everything I do. I am looking for a man who I can be a great wife to, but he must first be willing to be a good husband. I want truth and transparency. Tell me upfront who you are and I will do the same. "Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing."

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Basic Information

GenderFemale
LocationGainesville, FL, USA
Age43

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About Me

Height5' 4" (162 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
HairDark Brown
EyesBrown
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI do not have children, but would like to
Children0
Children home0
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of WorkAdministration
EthnicityBlack / African descent
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

MusicJazz, Pop/Top 40, Gospel/Religious Music, Soft Rock, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
MovieComedy, Documentary, Drama, Romance
Outdoor activitySwimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityAerobics, Computers, Dancing, Movies/TV, Music, Reading
My idea of a great tripThe Beach
FoodChinese, Italian, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
PoliticsLiberal
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 36 and 53 years old
DistanceWithin 100 miles of Gainesville, FL, USA
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 6' 6" (198 cm)
Religious Activityevery week
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

Have a nice dinner and conversation.

My past relationships have taught me...

If you have God, whatever happens you can survive it. Let me add based on recent experiences...I know this is hard, this whole "finding THE ONE thing", but you have to commit to the process. If you aren't ready, wait. It's okay to just wait. What is not okay is to say you're ready, and drag someone into your doubt and confusion and past pain, and fear. I think everyone wants to know that they are valued, that someone cares where they are during the day, and wants to know when they are coming home that night. Real life requires real courage, feel the fear and do it anyway. That is who I am looking for.

To me, being an Adventist means...

To believe in the hope of His second coming.

In five years, I see myself

I hope to be in a career that speaks to me. I want to be married to the love of my life. But if neither one of those things happen, I will still be living my life in God's will.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Hebrews 11. The chapter speaks to me. Faith is something I struggle with, but I pray for my measure of faith, everyday.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Please read my profile, and pray about whether we should communicate. I'm happy to be friends with people, but I don't "date" more than one person at a time. I'm looking for a person who is serious about God, serious about the church, and who will be serious about a relationship. I just want someone who cares enough to make an effort. I don't mean to give me things. I don't need things, I have my own things. I mean time, energy, effort. Relationships are not always easy and they are not always convenient, but if you truly want to have a life with someone, you have to want it enough to be at times... inconvenienced. Love is the best kind of inconvenience. I have to know that I am worth it to you. You will know that you are worth it to me.

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