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I know God has someone special for me in store. Living out in the country does not give you much opportunity to meet many single (males or females) anywhere near my age let alone SDA so that said... month after month as my profile lives here. Keeping busy all the while gardening, renovations to the house, taking care of my two dogs, helping people with anything I can and doing several bible studies. I love listening to music, but I like the quiet so I can hear all the cardinals, blue jays, wood peakers, blue birds and others I don't know yet. No excuses about lack of photos, someone took mine at Christmas but I am the one behind the camera. Of late I got two quilts tops made, Strawberries are up, Tomatoes and bell peppers too. One day I hope someone will say WOW, she looks like a nice lady and I would like to know her.

I'm hardworking, compassionate, intensely curious, in the health care industry, loyal, and love to be outdoors. My garden attests, I can kill more veggies then I grow but I still try.

I am looking for someone who can appreciate my talents and minimize my weakness while loving me for my dedication to them, to others of mankind and to God.


Basic Information

LocationSouth Mills, NC, USA


About Me

Height5' 6" (167 cm)
HairDark Brown
Relationship StatusWidowed
About ChildrenI have children and would like more
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationMaster's degree
Field of WorkPublic Health Retired
EthnicityCaucasian / White, Native American
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptioneasy going, friendly, introverted, funny, playful
MusicClassical, Classic Rock, Contemporary, Country/Western, Dance/Disco, Folk, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Pop/Top 40, Gospel/Religious Music, Rock n Roll, Soft Rock
Favorite bands and musiciansAmy Grant, Micheal Card, Micheal Smith, Micheal English, Steve Green, America, Moody Blues, Dan Folg
MovieAction/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Musical, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller, Western
Favorite movies and actorsTrue Stories, Hackman, Eastwood, Freeman, Willis, W. Smith, Bullick, Kidman, Streep, Witherspoon,
Favorite TV showsAmazing Facts, It is Written, NCIS and The Closer, History channel, discovery
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, SCUBA Diving, Sunbathing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityArt, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Dancing, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Reading, Restaurants
My idea of a great tripI learned a lot and relaxed
FoodAmerican, Barbeque, South American, Cajun/Southern, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese, Fast food, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Jewish/Kosher, Mediterranean, Mexican, Seafood, Southwestern, Spanish, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsI like a lot of them
Schools attendedLoma Linda U., Monmouth U., Southwestern C, Texas A&I (now A&M) U.
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 44 and 63 years old
DistanceWithin 500 miles of South Mills, NC, USA
HeightBetween 5' 4" (162 cm) and 7' 0" (213 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular, I'll tell you later
EducationHigh School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityonce or twice a month, every week
SmokingNever, On occasion
DrinkingNever, Rarely
EthnicityAfrican, Asian, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other



What I'd like to do on a first date...

My first date... do we have to date... can we just go to get to know each other... I like being friends and getting to know eachother better then this formal "Date" stuff. Yikes! Sound serious or something.

My past relationships have taught me...

Communication and friendship will surmount almost everything, when the passions run deep and the emotion is not very loving. Exclusivity in a relationship part of the foundation for trust (once you get past the initial "Do I like you?" kind of questions.)

To me, being an Adventist means...

I want to badly to be called one of HIS Kids and to be HIS Holy Bride one day.

In five years, I see myself

I would like a relationship with someone permanent if it be HIS will. Finish settling into my new community. Establish a Bible Study Group (there are no churches around me, I am rural) Become a functioning member of the culture and society: assisting with public health, teaching and encouraging health practices for pediatrics, young adults, mothers, middle age and elderly. I want to travel by car and hotel or by air... I love history and site seeing, lots to see here.

My favorite Bible passage is...

There are way too many to pick from. I have so many. I love He was with Elijah, David, Jeremiah, Daniel and many others in their wilderness journeys. I love the stories and parables that Christ and his disciples taught to all cause I understand Him better, I love the writings of Paul and others as they journeyed without Christ waiting for his return, and I love the prophecies that tell me His Second Advent is close.

Four are of my leaning:
Prov. 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
Prov. 31:10-31 Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life....
She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates.
1 Thes 4:16-17 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
Phil 4:4-9 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me--put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I have great communication skills both verbal and nonverbal, am a humanitarian and a survivalist. Hope one day there will be a company here in the area... it is over 20 miles to a church or more in any direction.

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