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I wake up every day excited, happy and full of expectations. God continues to bless me and I know that this will be a wonderful year. Attitude says it all. I always love life no matter what happens and try to learn from my mistakes. Everything that we go through helps make us the person we are today and my God is there with me every step of the way!

I rise to challenges and enjoy surprises. Loyalty and honesty is how I run my life. I value my friends and being there for them is important to me. A good sense of humor goes a long way with me as does the ability to laugh at oneself. I love eating out, films, walking my dog, watching the news, cooking and talking on the phone to my friends and family. My God has looked after me and has blessed me in wonderful times and in dreadful times. Knowing that He is there for me is what gets me through everything.

What am I looking for? I know more of what I don't want than what I do. I don't have a list - such things are for supermarkets lol. Be honest with me, love me and treat me well and you will be well on the way......but there has to be chemistry and no amount of money can make that happen.


Basic Information

LocationYuba City, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 8" (172 cm)
BuildI should maybe lose a few
Relationship StatusWidowed
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationSome College
Field of WorkOptician
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

MusicBlues, Classical, Classic Rock, Country/Western, Dance/Disco, Folk, Heavy Metal, Hip Hop/Rap, Movie Soundtracks, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Reggae, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Mystery, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller
Favorite TV showsBabylon 5, Battlestar Gallactica, X-files, Downton Abbey, Criminal Minds, Top Gear (UK),
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles, Gardening, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityArt, Charity/Volunteering, Cooking/Culinary arts, Movies/TV, Music, Politics, Restaurants
My idea of a great tripSpending a week in the city of Rome going around museums and having coffee in sidewalk bistros
FoodAmerican, Chinese, Greek, Indian, Jewish/Kosher, Mediterranean, Mexican, Persian, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Schools attendedCollegedale Academy, Newbold College
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 44 and 54 years old
DistanceWithin 300 miles of Yuba City, CA, USA
HeightBetween 5' 8" (172 cm) and 6' 8" (203 cm)
Body TypeAthletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityevery week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

For a first date I like it simple like a meal together or meeting for coffee. Doing things that give us the chance to talk and get to know each other is wonderful and is an ideal situation for me.

My past relationships have taught me...

I have only been married once - and sadly widowed. After almost thirty years of marriage I know that love is far more than a romantic fluttery feeling. Love is being there for the man in my life through thick and thin. Being reliable and consistent with the one you love is very important. Knowing that we are friends first puts the relationship on a solid footing. Honesty although painful sometimes is a must - and should be followed through with even though it can hurt at times. Remembering to love and to let yourself be loved is how I want to live.

To me, being an Adventist means...

I have been an Adventist for all of my life and still feel that this is God's church. The way I relate to the church is like this:

God's Church = Favourite Sports Team

When you love your team (the church) you follow it through it's good times and it's bad. You love it when it has good leadership and when it has "managers" that could be doing a better job than they are doing. You are there for it through thick and thin. You don't leave it just because you disagree with what it has said or done - just like your favourite team. If you love them, you love them. God's church is my favourite team and I will always be a fan.

In five years, I see myself

Wherever I may be in five years, you can trust that I will be happy no matter what happens. I am not defined by my circumstances. I love life and will enjoy everything that comes my way! :-)

My favorite Bible passage is...

I find the entire book of Revelation simply fascinating. It is full of so much hope and promise. I particularly love the passage where Jesus says that he is standing at the door knocking and waiting for us to open the door to him. He will never force himself on us - but wants us to let Him in.

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