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I am a multitalented and hardworking person, very accomplished in my main profession, and a published author. I am on this site because I believe in a second chance at marital happiness, based on mutual respect, admiration and acceptance for who we are, and ultimately developing true love, resulting exclusively from getting to know each other deeply.
I believe any true relationship is built on open communication, verbal and non-verbal, being willing to honestly admit when and where we are right or mistaken. Admitting fault and asking for forgiveness, on one hand, and being able to forgive, on the other, is paramount to any sincere, beautiful and lasting relationship.
I believe in face-to-face interaction. I find it much easier, safer and more fulfilling to get to know someone, and be known, in a natural setting, in each other's presence, without resorting to a lot of writing as the main means of communicating. However, since I love to write, I think penmanship should be a necessary and desirable part of any relationship, highlighting dimensions that would seldom become evident in a day-to-day verbal interaction. I assure you that I don't talk the same way I write. :-)
Since I do not like to talk much about myself (I prefer being discovered), I will say for now that warmth, sensitivity, peacefulness and kindness are highly characteristic of who I am. I equally relish good humor and playfulness in a relationship. I long for true, blossoming and everlasting love. Since I am positive and optimistic, I will encourage and support you in all worthy aspirations with everything I have to offer.
You do not have to be like me, but need to feel wonderful in my presence, and so would I in yours. Otherwise there would be no worthwhile reason for togetherness. Our lifestyles need to be compatible. As such, a strong belief in God and a willingness to follow in His footsteps are a must. Concurrently, alcohol, tobacco and other drugs should never constitute ingredients of our life together, but a (predominantly) vegetarian diet should.
I believe men and women are complementary equal in God's eyes, no matter what societal conventions tell us. We need to regard each other higher than ourselves, without vanity. If that becomes reality in our lives, we can greatly reduce the potential for conflicts and gives us improved skills for conflict management.
Besides being a choral director, an independent health care professional, a property manager and having a music publishing business, I am a Dave Ramsey-trained financial coach and coordinate Financial Peace University and Legacy Journey classes for my church and community. I am also involved in health-care outreach, locally and internationally, through NEW START-based health expos and classes.
If my thoughts and desires are reverberating in your being, I would like to get to know you. Thank you for reading my profile. Please see more in the Q&A section.
|Location||Kent, WA, USA|
|Height||6' 0" (182 cm)|
|About Children||I do not have children, but would welcome yours|
|Religious Involvement||every week|
|Field of Work||Music Director / Healthcare|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Languages Spoken||English, French, German, Other|
|Self-description||Longing for true, blossoming, intensely burning, unquenchable and everlasting love|
|Music||Classical, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Opera, Gospel/Religious Music, Soft Rock, World|
|Favorite bands and musicians||I appreciate a variety of musical styles, genres and historical periods. No absolute favorites.|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Mystery, Romance, Western|
|Favorite movies and actors||Don't follow closely or watch much.|
|Favorite TV shows||Hope Channel, 3ABN, Discovery, National Geographic, Foxxy, Charlie Rose|
|Outdoor activity||Automobiles/Motorcycles, Basketball, Biking, Birdwatching, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Sailing, Sunbathing, Swimming, Tennis, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Aerobics, Art, Cars, Charity/Volunteering, Collecting, Computers, Cooking/Culinary arts, Crafts, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Politics, Reading, Restaurants, Shopping, Weightlifting|
|My idea of a great trip||Variety, being creative, from water to mountains, tropical to snowy, cruises, countries, cultures|
|Food||American, Chinese, European, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Jewish/Kosher, Mediterranean, Mexican, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan|
|Favorite restaurants||Mine or others' homecooking, Olive Garden, Quizno's, Subway, Applebee's, Middle Eastern|
|Schools attended||Univ. of Washington Seattle, National Univ. of Music Bucharest|
|Timeliness||I am usually on time|
|As for fashion||I'm a somewhat fashionable person|
|Age||Between 45 and 57 years old|
|Height||Between 5' 0" (152 cm) and 6' 0" (182 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular|
|Education||Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree|
|Religious Activity||once or twice a month, every week|
Any setting that would encourage conversation.
Be who you are, follow your dreams, communicate with your spouse often, spend quality time together, resolve conflicts promptly, love fully and unapologetically.
A benevolent attitude, gentle spirit, kind tone of voice, and willingness to make reasonable concessions, often are more important, desirable and fruitful than being right, blunt or stern.
We need to have a lifelong desire, and daily seek, to make beautiful, harmonious, heavenly music together, and combine our unique colors, shapes and textures in a breathtaking tapestry.
Reflecting and presenting the Real Jesus to those around me by allowing Him to fully transform me into His image, in order to best serve others and share with them the good news of His second coming.
Letting myself led by the Lord in whatever plans He has for me, since He knows best. Ideally, being able to fully employ my talents for His glory and find my companion for the rest of my earthly and eternal life. Being involved in mission work together with my spouse, locally and internationally, according to our own gifts.
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
I feel I wrote enough for you to get a glimpse of who I am and what I am seeking. Now it's time for interaction. Getting to know someone is just like knowing God, a lifelong process, even an eternal one. Whether or not you are more traditional as far as male-female relationships go, it is perfectly alright if you initiate the first contact.