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Someone who sincerely puts God first and wants you to do the same. I am not interested in someone who wants to rush into a date. Although this is a Christian site, I expect you to go slow, feel me out, see if I am being honest and truthful. Question me about my religious experience, determine if I am being authentic or just giving you a line. Ensure that I am not telling you what I think you want to hear. Don't be afraid to challenge me. As the Bible says judge a tree by its fruit. To be honest, I am an introvert who is attempting to be more outgoing. To be a true witness for Christ, I believe that is a necessity. In a group setting, regardless of my knowledge of the subject, unless directly asked, I prefer to listen. I am much more at ease, expressing myself one on one


Basic Information

LocationMurrieta, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Relationship StatusWidowed
About ChildrenAsk me
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationTechnical School
Field of Workretired
EthnicityBlack / African descent


Fun Facts

MusicJazz, Gospel/Religious Music, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
MovieDocumentary, Drama
Favorite TV showsNCIS
Outdoor activityGardening, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityAerobics, Computers, Cooking/Culinary arts, Martial Arts, Reading
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 57 and 67 years old
DistanceWithin 100 miles of Murrieta, CA, USA
HeightBetween 4' 9" (144 cm) and 5' 8" (172 cm)
Body TypeSlender



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Go for a walk on the beach, somewhere near the water. No matter how I am feeling at the time (on a first date, being nervous is an understatement), water has a calming effect on me.

My past relationships have taught me...

God must come first and be at the center of everything. Being honest and truthful is a priority. Don't be afraid to show the real you. Communication is key to any relationship. Be willing to listen, not just hear, there is a huge difference between the two. Allow the other person to completely express themselves, before trying to answer. Your interests may not be completely the same but, for the other person's sake, be flexible, try something new.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Preparing for Jesus return. Daily worship, which includes Bible study, devotions, and Sabbath school lesson study. Understanding that I am saved by grace and mercy because of Christ's death on the cross. Any good thing that I do, I am not to be commended for, God gets the praise. The good works that I do is not for salvation (that's impossible, only Christ could do it) but, in response to God's love. As much as I may love my mate, I must love God more. I cannot afford to make Adam's mistake.

In five years, I see myself

To read completely through the Bible five more times. Stop being shy and share God's love and Christ's sacrifice with as many people as I can.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Ephesians 2:8,9 "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God; Not of works, lest any man should boast.

We must constantly remember we cannot work or buy our way into heaven.

Proverbs 31:10-31 "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies." ......

As men, when we make bad choices when it comes to women, the fault is our own. Those verses say it all, God has given us a blueprint. We must stop getting carried away with how good she looks and how sweet she talks. Don't get me wrong, I understand attraction has its' place but, the priority has to be, what is the condition of her heart. Just like men, the outward appearance can be so appealing but, the ugliness inside can be unfathomable.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I am looking for a companion. Someone to share life's ups and downs. I am looking for that person, who upon patiently listening says, "neither one of us has the answer, let's pray about it". At different times we will lean on each other for human comfort but, understanding our real strength is faith and belief in God.

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