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Hi. They call me the music man. I'm warm, friendly, kind, honest, caring, romantic, fun and funny. I'm looking for the same in a women with a big heart and an open attitude to where God may lead us relationship wise. Let me be your "best man"!


Basic Information

LocationDaly City, CA, USA


About Me

Height6' 2" (187 cm)
BuildLarge but muscular
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and do NOT want more
Children home0
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of WorkEstimator/Project Manager
EthnicityPacific Islands
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionFun music man.
MusicBlues, Classical, Classic Rock, Contemporary, Country/Western, Folk, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Gospel/Religious Music, Soft Rock, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
MovieAction/Adventure, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Romance
Favorite TV showsHopkins, 48 Hours, Dateline,
Outdoor activityBasketball, Golf, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityCooking/Culinary arts, Music, Opera/Theater, Restaurants
FoodAmerican, Barbeque, Chinese, Greek, Indian, Italian, Mediterranean, Mexican, Persian, Southwestern, Vegetarian/Vegan, Vietnamese
Favorite restaurantsGarden Fresh,
PoliticsOpen Minded
Schools attendedMonterey Bay Academy, Pacific Union College


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 44 and 60 years old
HeightBetween 5' 6" (167 cm) and 5' 10" (177 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Full-figured, I'll tell you later
EducationTechnical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityonce or twice a month, every week
DrinkingNever, Rarely, On occasion
EthnicityAsian, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Go out for coffee or Jamba. Go out for lunch or dinner. Talk a walk on the beach. Go to chruch. Work together at some ministry. It doesn't matter. It's anywhere where you can talk and get to know each other.

My past relationships have taught me...

You can't change people. You either accept each other for who they are or move on. Add to that a good dose of compassion, understanding, forgiveness, humor, and genuine care for each other, with a lot of give and take, gives you a good shot at making it. P./S. (It may sound trite) But don't sweat the small stuff and keep dating, even after you get married.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Belonging to a movement that believes in Jesus, who by faith is our means to salvation, and his soon 2nd coming. A group of believers who follow all of God's commandments, and believe that we are living in the end times. A group of people ,who I hope, have a love for people and have compassion for them like Jesus did, even if they don't believe like you do.

In five years, I see myself

Lord willing, I will be in long term (permanent) relationship with a Prov. 31 woman. I will be working in a music or evangelistic ministry (or maybe both). Even if I stay in Construction Management, I will be at the top of my field. I will be healthier, the best Dad and husband I can be.

My favorite Bible passage is...

You know, I have a lot of favorite text - they usually vary depending on what situation I'm in. For instance, my favorite lately is...
Where's that text where it says "it is not good for man to be alone...
Seriously. When it comes to life and women Jer. 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. When I'm overly stressed to the max, I think often of Matt. 11:28,29 Come to me, all you who are tired and carry heavy loads and I will give you rest. Accept my teachings and learn from me. For I am gentle and of humble spirit and you will find rest for your lives. And one more when I think of how much God loves me: Zeph. 3:17 The Lord you God is with you; the mighty One will save you. He will rejoice over you. Your will rest in his love; he will sing and be joyful about you. Isn't that the ultimate - God dancing and singing about you because he loves you so much. Totally awesome!

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I love music, all types, especially choral, praise and worship music. It pumps me up. I solo and sing with several groups. If you sing or play an instrument (other than the radio), that would be a nice plus, but not a make or break requirement. I can cook up a storm and love both entertaining and quiet times. I can hang with you while you're shopping from one end of the mall to the other end of the mall on the other side of town, even at the expense of a 49er game. Just kidding about the last part. I have 2 adult kids who don't live with me, but they are a important part of my life. Plus...Plus...Plus...., but I don't want to write the book here. Let's write the next chapters together.

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