Go out for coffee or Jamba. Go out for lunch or dinner. Talk a walk on the beach. Go to chruch. Work together at some ministry. It doesn't matter. It's anywhere where you can talk and get to know each other.

You can't change people. You either accept each other for who they are or move on. Add to that a good dose of compassion, understanding, forgiveness, humor, and genuine care for each other, with a lot of give and take, gives you a good shot at making it. P./S. (It may sound trite) But don't sweat the small stuff and keep dating, even after you get married.

Belonging to a movement that believes in Jesus, who by faith is our means to salvation, and his soon 2nd coming. A group of believers who follow all of God's commandments, and believe that we are living in the end times. A group of people ,who I hope, have a love for people and have compassion for them like Jesus did, even if they don't believe like you do.

Lord willing, I will be in long term (permanent) relationship with a Prov. 31 woman. I will be working in a music or evangelistic ministry (or maybe both). Even if I stay in Construction Management, I will be at the top of my field. I will be healthier, the best Dad and husband I can be.

You know, I have a lot of favorite text - they usually vary depending on what situation I'm in. For instance, my favorite lately is...
Where's that text where it says "it is not good for man to be alone...
Seriously. When it comes to life and women Jer. 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. When I'm overly stressed to the max, I think often of Matt. 11:28,29 Come to me, all you who are tired and carry heavy loads and I will give you rest. Accept my teachings and learn from me. For I am gentle and of humble spirit and you will find rest for your lives. And one more when I think of how much God loves me: Zeph. 3:17 The Lord you God is with you; the mighty One will save you. He will rejoice over you. Your will rest in his love; he will sing and be joyful about you. Isn't that the ultimate - God dancing and singing about you because he loves you so much. Totally awesome!

I love music, all types, especially choral, praise and worship music. It pumps me up. I solo and sing with several groups. If you sing or play an instrument (other than the radio), that would be a nice plus, but not a make or break requirement. I can cook up a storm and love both entertaining and quiet times. I can hang with you while you're shopping from one end of the mall to the other end of the mall on the other side of town, even at the expense of a 49er game. Just kidding about the last part. I have 2 adult kids who don't live with me, but they are a important part of my life. Plus...Plus...Plus...., but I don't want to write the book here. Let's write the next chapters together.