chat away over a cup of tea first and see where it goes "no pressure". If there's no chemistry you might gain a really good friend. win win situation lol

I only had one relationship so far that lasted for 19 years. Really good memories and we still get along really well ourselves and for our 2 girls. When we went our separate ways it was very painful, peaceful and mutral. There were no anger or hatred. Our family and friends could not understand because it was very different from the "norm". I have learnt soo much

Don't get me started lol. Going to church every Saturday and warming the bench does not cut it for me at all. Being a good christian, you were either born with it or developed it over the yrs of being a christian. I say "Christian" because the same rule of thumb applies for all religion. I use myself as a perfect example because my Mom always says it is the safest way to go :). I try to be an honest or real christian most of the time. That is "of course" until you decide to cut me off on the road lol. I try my best to exercise all of my qualities from the moment I awake until I go to sleep so in line ups, with my girls, at work, in church, on the road etc. Those are a few things that you would expect from an Adventist. I trully believe that instead of spending the entire sat learning about our religion we should use some of that time to go out there and help others whatever way we can. Spend time with the sick, people that have challenges in life, our own brothers and sisters sitting right next to us in church. Growing up learning about the SDA message all those yrs was enough knowledge now lets excersise it. You wouldn't believe the power or impact you would have in someone's life just by reaching out to them sometimes just by listening or coming up with ideas how that person can get access to extra cash to assist them in paying thier bills in order to live more comfortably. It could be getting a second job or managing a small business on the side. To me that is what being a good Adventist is. And remember if you are poor yourself and strougling it will be vertually imposible to help others. I'm tired of going to church all day almost every sat looking around me I can see how people are strougling but no one is doing anything to help or take the time to teach these people ways on how they can improve thier everyday lives so that they can really say "Amen" in church and really mean it because they are now happier and truly more comfy in life. And how will they contribute when they can not even get by at home. Shorter sweeter sermans and spend more time assisting others and even yourselves in the process cause whenever you share ideas together you yourself benefit from it. I'm very passionate about this question sry :)

I'll let you know in person

Do to others as you would like them to do to you. We would not have all this chaos in this world

I've said too much already, your turn :)