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I prefer to be identified as a God fearing, old fashioned, Sabbath keeping, southern Christian gentleman …who follows the Bible and the Bible alone. My identity is in Christ, not a denomination. My commitment is to God and His word. I love Adventist, though I AM NOT Adventist. I follow no particular denomination, only my Bible and if that’s not good enough, then I’m definitely not the man for you.

I enjoy a good laugh, in-depth and stimulating conversation, affection and of course football. I’m spontaneous and passionate, aggressive yet patient, educated (Master’s Degree in Ministry at Oakwood) yet practical, rough yet gentle, courteous and respectful, blunt yet genuine. I don’t smoke and wouldn’t engage a woman who does. I don’t drink yet I don’t mind a woman who drinks socially yet responsibly. I believe that Christians are saved by grace and grace alone. Anything else is nothing short of legalism. , I would love to find a CHRISTIAN wife, her denomination makes no difference to me. If she loves God, accepts Jesus as her Lord and Savior and understands that she is saved by Grace and Grace alone, then she is indeed a candidate for marriage.

I’m not looking too be changed or to change anyone. I’m simple looking for compatibility. Either we have it or we don’t. It is not my intent to dominate or usurp any woman’s individuality… still according to the book of Genesis, God has commissioned me to lead and with Gods guidance, lead I shall. To the point I have absolutely no challenges meeting women …yet as of late, I’ve found it virtually impossible to meet a LADY. (span style="font-weight:bold;")

Again I’m old fashion so forgive me if believe that a woman should be gentle, soft spoken and reserved, Sexy yet classy, poised and observant, confident and compassionate. She should be conservative yet woman enough to tactfully speak her mind, knowing that her man has her back and that he wouldn’t hesitate to aggressively demonstrate that reality.



Basic Information

LocationLawrenceville, GA, USA


About Me

Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationMaster's degree
Field of WorkAsk Me
EthnicityAfrican, Asian, Black / African descent, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, East Indian, Hispanic / Latino, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

MusicJazz, Gospel/Religious Music
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Mystery, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller, Western
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing, Running, Sports/Athletics
Indoor activityCooking/Culinary arts, Reading, Weightlifting
FoodCajun/Southern, Caribbean/Cuban, Seafood, Vegetarian/Vegan
PoliticsOpen Minded
Schools attendedOakwood "back when it was a College" LOL!!!
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 18 and 52 years old
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 5' 7" (170 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular, Full-figured, I'll tell you later
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityon special occasions, several times a year, once or twice a month, every week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

First, we meet and greet at Starbucks for warm drinks, eye contact and stimulating conversation. From there we will both determine if our attraction, interactions and compatibility warrant a date. If not I will consider myself blessed to have made a new friend.

My past relationships have taught me...

Past relationships have taught me that I can’t accept the imperfections of others until I have accepted my own. To love more and judge less. To be like Christ is to love like Him and to love like Him is to seek forgiveness, even when I’m right. Past relationships have taught me that the mistakes of my mate does not grant me permission to get even. My love must be based upon my decision to love and not contingent upon me receiving love. I must love her the way she needs it, instead of giving her what I think she needs. I've learned that it is just as important to protect and defend her feelings, just as aggressively as I protect and defend her physically.

Finally I’ve learned that legalism kills love. It is more concerned with policy instead of compassion, penalty instead patience, pride instead of penitence. People make mistakes, our best efforts are as filthy rags. Looking for perfection in man is unbiblical and truly unrealistic. Finally, my past relationships have taught me that relationships and marriages take workhard work …and if you’re not willing to work, then I would conclude that you’re not ready for either.

To me, being an Adventist means...

By definition, being Advent means the coming of Christ into the world, and I am indeed awaiting the second coming of Christ, hence by default I am a Christian Adventist.

But I am a Christian first and to me being a Christian mean that I accept by faith that Jesus is the son of God, who was sent into this world by his father to pay for the sins of fallen man. I believe that I am save by grace through faith and that not of myself, it is a gift of God not of works least any should boast. As a Christian I believe that religion cannot save me, church membership cannot save me, good religious rituals cannot save me, trying hard to be good cannot save me, playing by the rules cannot save me, keeping the Ten Commandments cannot save me, baptism cannot save me, giving money cannot save me, being a pastor cannot save me, becoming a missionary cannot save me, reading the Bible cannot save me, serving the poor cannot save me, visiting the sick cannot save me, being nice cannot save me, my best efforts, best try with the sincerest of motives CAN NOT SAVE ME!!!! MY JUSTIFICATION FOR SALVATION IS ACCOMPLISHED SOLELY BY THE MERITS OF JESUS THE CHRIST AND ANYTHING I ATTEMPT TO CONTRIBUTE AS A MEANS TO SAVE MY SELF IS NOTHING LESS THAN LEGALISM AND COMPLETELY DIMINISHES GODS GIFT.

In five years, I see myself

Marry the woman God sends me
Sharing The Good news of Jesus!!
complete the book God has encouraged me to write.

My favorite Bible passage is...

My favorite Bible passages are in Galatians 3.
The reason it is my favorite Bible passage is because of its ability to clearly sum up the Gospel as identified, and its identified as a promise from God, to be accomplished by God. Galatians 3 also places the purpose of the law in its proper context by placing an expiration date on the law, and that expiration was at the coming of Christ. The reason this is relevant is because legalism is running rampant in every denomination, hence people end up mastering behavior modification but never get to know their master Christ Jesus.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

My sister, It is my prayer that you understand that you cant separate Faith and Love, they are one machine. Please meditate on this reality, Just a few minutes, It will release you from so much and empower you In Jesus. The Spirit willing, you will get a break through on this reality and such will change your life forever.

"Father, in the name of Jesus, I thank you for allowing my sister to meditate on this simple truth. In the name of Jesus I stand in the gap, asking that you give her a blessing and a break though, in Jesus name I pray, Amen" Thank you Jesus!!!

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