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I’m am not an SDA, I am however a non-denominational God Fearing, old fashioned Sabbath keeping southern gentleman who follows the Bible and the Bible alone. I enjoy a good laugh, in-depth and stimulating conversation, affection and of course football. I’m spontaneous and passionate, aggressive yet patient, educated (Master’s Degree in Ministry at Oakwood) yet practical, rough yet gentle, courteous and respectful, blunt yet genuine. I don’t smoke and wouldn’t engage a woman who does. I don’t drink yet I don’t mind a woman who drinks socially yet responsibly. I believe in God, hence I believe in going to church, if you’re not interest I understand. At 44 I’m not looking too be changed or to change anyone. I’m simple looking for compatibility. Either we have it or we don’t. It is not my intent to dominate or usurp any woman’s individuality… but I’m all man, so you can expect me to lead. To the point I have absolutely no challenges meeting women …yet as of late, I’ve found it virtually impossible to meet a LADY. I love an attentive woman who can read between the lines, as such a woman can swiftly find me and command my attention, she will SEA what most will miss. Again I’m old fashion so forgive me if believe that a woman should be gentle, soft spoken and reserved, Sexy yet classy, poised and observant, confident and compassionate. She should be conservative yet woman enough to tactfully speak her mind, knowing that her man has her back and that he wouldn’t hesitate to demonstrate that reality. I’m not arrogant enough to believe that I, siammarcus am the only fish on pof.


Basic Information

LocationLawrenceville, GA, USA


About Me

Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home0
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationMaster's degree
Field of WorkAsk Me
EthnicityAfrican, Asian, Black / African descent, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, East Indian, Hispanic / Latino, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

MusicJazz, Gospel/Religious Music
MovieAction/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Mystery, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller, Western
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing, Running, Sports/Athletics
Indoor activityCooking/Culinary arts, Reading, Weightlifting
FoodCajun/Southern, Caribbean/Cuban, Seafood, Vegetarian/Vegan
PoliticsOpen Minded
Schools attendedOakwood "back when it was a College" LOL!!!
TimelinessI am usually early
As for fashionI dress to be comfortable


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 18 and 52 years old
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 5' 7" (170 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular, Full-figured, I'll tell you later
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityon special occasions, several times a year, once or twice a month, every week



What I'd like to do on a first date...

I often prefer group outings over one on one dating in the beginning. This allows me to really see my date in her rawest state. Most mature individuals have mastered the art of dating one on one or better said; they've master behavior modification. It is only natural for a person to exhibit there best before a potential mate, so... though the first impression may be the lasting one, it is rarely accurate and sadly enough, often misleading. A setting involving 2 of her friends and two of mine will shift the focus drastically an allow all parties involved to act as close to themselves as publicly possible. Often a friends presents not only brings comfort and support but it will also hold the Christian to the standard of truth. Such an open first date may seem unusual to most, yet it provides the most revealing details and sets one up for the most awesome second date you will ever experience. How?? It arms you with information giving you more leverage for spontaneous and creative energy.

My past relationships have taught me...

The past has taught me to embrace Gods wisdom.., In the Beginning God Created... "ONE". Then He “being God", put that "ONE" to sleep and from that ONE, Created He another …ONE. Though the both together physically equaled TWO, God pronounce them both, together physically, ONE. Not "LIKE ONE" or "AS ONE" but ONE. Now I’m not a mathematician but for as long as I can remember one and one has always equaled two. They are separate, individual and noticeably distinct. And true enough when referring to tangibles such as objects, cattle or just plain stuff on a carnal level, this equation is true. Yet in light of marriage or relationships leading to marriage, an institute created, sanctioned and governed by God, this simple equation is transformed and exalted above mere mathematics. In light of Gods word, we now understand that a couple who’s ultimate goal is marriage, must submit themselves to God’s prophecy of oneness. A merging spirit of oneness can only be achieved by each individual within the relationship completely surrendering to God allowing or inviting the indwelling of the Holy spirit who merges the two into ONE. Oneness can only be achieved though selflessness and this attribute is not found in any man or woman. It exists only in God, yet can be given as a gift of the Spirit and is labeled the greatest gift of all…….that’s right…the gift of Love. In short I’ve learned to seek the gift of Love from the Holy Spirit , and will encourage my potential mate to do the same so that we can receive the gift of oneness from the Spirit of God.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Understanding that it takes Love to activate Faith
Understanding that true Love produces action
Serving because "I'm loved unconditionally by my Savior and motivated by His love to do the same.
Understanding that to truly love is to trust and real trust requires no evidence or proof.
understanding that the power to change is not in me but in Jesus who wants to live in me.

In five years, I see myself

Marry the woman God sends me
Sharing The Good news of Jesus!!
complete the book God has encouraged me to write.

My favorite Bible passage is...

And it came to pass when they were come that he looked on Eliab, and said Surely the Lord's anointed is before Him.

But the Lord said unto Samuel, look not on his countenance, or the height of his stature: because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth: for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the lord looketh on the heart.

1 Samuel 16:6,7

Why: It reminds me that I should... we should... leave the judging to God and that we should love a lot more and judge a lot less.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

My sister, It is my prayer that you understand that you cant separate Faith and Love, they are one machine. Please meditate on this reality, Just a few minutes, It will release you from so much and empower you In Jesus. The Spirit willing, you will get a break through on this reality and that such a breakthrough will change your life forever.

"Father, in the name of Jesus, I thank you for allowing my sister to meditate on this simple truth. In the name of Jesus I stand in the gap, asking that you give her a blessing and a break though, in Jesus name I pray, Amen" Thank you Jesus!!!

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