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I would prefer to be inconspicuous, but in reality, I'm hard to miss. I am conscientious, patient, and intentional. I am not pretentious. I am not perfect. I am a lifelong learner, so I am constantly growing.

I strive to "keep it simple", and truly enjoy the "simple" things. I believe in chivalry and romance, and like to practice both. The people closest to me say I am silly, considerate, kind, intelligent, and intuitive. Today, I would describe myself as an "old skool mixed tape in a digital era". Unfortunately, if you're not familiar with "old skool and mixed tapes", I may not be right for you. (Tapes = cassette tapes)

I am interested in a woman with diverse thoughts, yet a strong belief. She does not need to be perfect, but it would be nice if she wants to strive for perfection. I think it would be nice to be with someone who is willing to enjoy the journey. I love a gorgeous personality and loving spirit. Must be able to express all emotions and feelings (both good and bad). Must be willing to try and love unconditionally. Must believe in romance. Must love the Lord! Must not be selfish or shallow. Must be an independent thinker. Must not be "catty". Must be real. Must have "flaws" (I do).


Basic Information

LocationAurora, IL, USA


About Me

Height6' 7" (200 cm)
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI am open to all possibilities
Children home2
EducationMaster's degree
Field of WorkEducation
EthnicityBlack / African descent
Languages SpokenEnglish


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionLoyal, honest, thougthful, compassionate, sarcastic, simplistic
MusicDance/Disco, Hip Hop/Rap, Jazz, Gospel/Religious Music, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
Favorite bands and musiciansDonald Byrd, Andrea Helms, Lonnie Liston Smith, Christ Botti, Pink Floyd
MovieAction/Adventure, Comedy, Drama, Romance, Science Fiction
Favorite movies and actorsForrest Gump, Something The Lord Made, Best Man Holiday, Man of Steel
Favorite TV showsBreaking Bad, College Sports (football), Big Bang Theory
Outdoor activityBasketball, Biking, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityCooking/Culinary arts, Movies/TV, Music, Sports
My idea of a great tripGood music, good scenery, good food, and good company
FoodBarbeque, Chinese, Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian/Vegan
Schools attendedCentral State (OH) University and Miami University
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't need advice!


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 39 and 50 years old
HeightBetween 5' 6" (167 cm) and 6' 7" (200 cm)
Body TypeWashboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular, Full-figured
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityonce or twice a month, every week
DrinkingNever, Rarely, On occasion



What I'd like to do on a first date...

I don't believe in a "typical" first date. There is more than one way to have a good time. I believe my "date" should be comfortable and relaxed. No pressure.

My past relationships have taught me...

Past relationships have taught me the real meaning of unwavering, unconditional, everlasting love. I know that real love is sacrificial. Most importantly, I've learned that real love is not found in things, it's found and shared in all of life's everyday experiences (laughing, words of affirmation, quality time together, expressions of love, etc.)

In five years, I see myself

I don't know what my future holds, but I know that God holds my future. I hope to have furthered my education and discovered my ministry.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I was raised Adventist. I attended and participated in AYS, Pathfinders, etc. I am a Sabbath observer. One side of my family (mother's side) are Adventist, and my best friend is Adventist. I attend Adventist churches. I am not a "law" (Adventist doctrine) abiding follower. I have not totally renounced Adventism, but I am not an ardent, ritualistic practitioner. I have learned not to subscribe to any particular denominational doctrine. I choose to be lead by the Holy Spirit and Scripture. My faith starts with 2 Timothy 3:16-17. I most closely align my believes and practices with those of the Seventh-Day Adventist Church and Messianic Judaism.

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