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Introduction

Luv the Lord. I'm a good-natured, caring man of integrity and who seeks after the character of God, the mind of Christ and the heart of a woman. I am a man holding God's hand in one hand while reaching out to a woman with the other.

I love the outdoors; love to hike, camp, photograph, travel to new places for new memories... and love many other activities, blessed to enjoy life as God has provided. I'm outgoing, have a quick wit & good sense of humor; am positive & supportive; conversive, contemplative, philosophical, introspective, articulate & love to write. I enjoy helping others in many ways as well as encouraging them towards godly living and strengthening their relationship with Him.


I own 2 businesses. One, remodeling. The 2nd biz: business services such as marketing, advertising, credit card processing and more.

I'm looking for a warm, caring, tall, godly woman. Someone with a great 'n positive attitude 'n personality and sense of humor. Someone that draws me to her and causes me to long to love and adore her, care deeply for her, respect her and be best friends with her as well. And together, we pursue our loves for life and the Lord.

Being xtra-tall tone and slender, I'm STRONGLY drawn to tall and slender too. (birds of a feather) Tall to me is 5ft9-6ft2.

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Basic Information

GenderMale
LocationPortland, OR, USA
Age56

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About Me

Height6' 7" (200 cm)
BuildSlender
HairLight Brown
EyesBrown
Relationship StatusSingle - never been married
Children1
Children home0
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever
Religious Involvementevery week
EducationBachelor's degree
Field of Workremodeling contractor
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Languages SpokenEnglish

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Fun Facts

MusicContemporary
MovieRomance
Outdoor activityCamping/Hiking/Fishing
PoliticsConservative
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't care about the latest fashions

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 42 and 50 years old
DistanceAny
HeightBetween 5' 7" (170 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Athletic, Average
EducationHigh School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Some College, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship StatusAny
Religious Activityseveral times a year, once or twice a month, every week
SmokingNever
DrinkingNever, Rarely, On occasion
EthnicityAsian, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other

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Essays

What I'd like to do on a first date...

Hmm. Group setting, or just the 2 of us? Or with "the kids" too? I love any scenario. But... since I so love the outdoors and the Lord... I'd opt for either a hike through or to some incredible scenery, or a relaxed week nite church service or church group activity. Maybe "game nite" or some energizing social event of some kind with Christian friends. But, I am totally open to anything. A walk on the beach, picnic in the mtns, sip hot sumpthin's on the deck while watching the sun set.. or rise. I find great times in anything. Enjoying the company is what is so important, to me, anyway. I'm happy doing anything. Easy-going. Flexible. Content.

My past relationships have taught me...

To be positive, maintain communication at all times and in all things; be selfless, totally open and honest, flexible, giving and loving... unconditionally (just to name a few); that I am vulnerable, and others are as well; that boundaries are not just important.. they are vital; that having a healthy self image (being humble & confident at the same time, as it applies to both the view of internal and external self) is an asset in both myself and the other person; that sharing life with someone is an incredibly paramount experience, and to find one's self blessed enough to share life with someone else is never to be taken for granted. I could write for many pages on this... but I'll hold off til we chat. Is that OK?

Not looking for perfect, but someone who loves the Lord, possesses high morals, values, standards. Prefer someone who is 7th Day Adventist but not stuck on going to church only on Sabbath. Prefer someone who enjoys snow skiing.

Lastly, someone not with an abusive past; and not been cheated on by her husband and/or some terribly painful or bitter relationship situation in the past 3-5 years which has left her emotionally unstable, unavailable and/or highly insecure. I don’t have the skills to deal with that very well, but can certainly pray earnestly for her recovery.

Being extra tall, I am looking for someone tall too. Other than this, I am open.

To me, being an Adventist means...

It means I am not just blessed to know Truths as held to by the church, but that I have a responsibility to share with others.. but not to be arrogant and not share in love. Not to project in "pride" about "being the right church" and the only church others may find God and the relationship with Christ through. Though I do share particulars about our church denomination, doctrine, beliefs... I feel I must recognize that it is the Holy Spirit who convicts the heart, not me... and I shouldn't try to do his work. I believe we are called to share the Gospel first and foremost... in its simplicity. And we are to share it in and with love. The Holy Spirit will do the work in the heart and mind. We should not try to do what only the Holy Spirit and the Lord can do in people. (to me, anyway...)

In five years, I see myself

I wish to continue to daily and consistently strive towards becoming an even better man of God... in His image. A man of even higher character. I absolutely love to do what that all entails.. to learn, read, study, and then share, show God's love and His Message.. and experience His indwelling in me.

I wish to continue to hearken unto God's speaking to me to help others, especially in the area of relationship-building in the Christian or non-Christian communities.

It is my goal to continue to pursue after the heart of God and take on the mind of Christ... being the man I am called to be... and live a life worthy of glory to Him.

I'd like to move out to the country. I love open views, scenery, expanse and things that remind me of God. Quiet places where the clutter of life can be dissipated. A place more conducive for strengthening my spiritual walk. A place where I can look up and see as many stars, planets, etc as possible.... and use a telescope to enhance the experience. A place I can share with others... and someone special whom God has chosen for me to love on, give to and share life with.

I'd like to do some kayaking, more snorkeling, and a plethora of other things for the first time or to continue doing. Flying/getting my pilots license would be great! So much to do in life.. many adventures to find, to make... lots of life to live. Would love to do that with someone.

My favorite Bible passage is...

Oh no! I knew there was going to be a tough question! LOL... I LOVE reading/studying my Bible. It is "used". I am drawn to it constantly. I have so many favorite verses... it would take pages to list them. I am passionate about positive and encouraging... so, anything positive is great, to me. Hence, I am mostly finding myself immersed in Paul's letters. I can get lost in them for hours...

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Looking for someone of high values, morals and standards who is conscious of and careful in her choices in the kind of books read, tv/movies watched and music listened to. What we put in affects our attitudes, disciplines, values, morals, ethics, standards and decisions. And it impacts the motive, direction and quality of our relationships.

She's also loving, adoring and romantic. Affectionate, lovely, personable, caring, empathetic, compassionate, loves to help others, and has a delightful personality. Confident and a good-attitude positive possibility thinker. Someone who causes me to sincerely and earnestly strive for being better at who I am.

I wish to say that I feel it is vital, our attitudes towards self and others; and to know how to deal with and overcome trials, God’s way…and what it means to have a new nature, new heart and new mind.. and to exercise them… and encourage others to do the same, drawing us all nearer to the heart of God, His Will and His Love.

That's it, I guess. Thanks for reading about me!

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