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I am a good-natured boy cat who is searching for the right girl cat to prowl through life's joys and adventures as well as the struggles and disappointments. I'm looking for an absolute best friend with whom to travel that journey, with plenty of laughs along the way. I think a friendship where two can freely talk about everything, especially fears, emotions, prayers, hopes and dreams is the foundation of a glorious union between man and woman. If it is meant to be, the rest will fall into place, without deadlines. I like sensitive, caring, funny, brainey. My days are spent reading, writing or arguing in court so out doors and fitness are important. I also find searching and negotiating this site dreadfully clunky!


Basic Information

LocationAlameda, CA, USA


About Me

Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Relationship StatusDivorced
About ChildrenI have children and would welcome yours
Children home1
Religious Involvementonce or twice a month
EducationDoctoral degree
Field of WorkProblem Solver
EthnicityCaucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino


Fun Facts

Self-descriptionSentimental, Loyal, Stubborn, Impractical, Sincere, Flippant, Right-Brained, Rather Live In Nature
MusicBlues, Jazz, Gospel/Religious Music, Soul/Rhythm and Blues, World
Favorite bands and musiciansJimi Page, Johan Bach, Carlos Jobim, Bud Shank
MovieAction/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Mystery, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller
Favorite movies and actorsClooney Pfipher One Fine Day
Favorite TV showsThe Good Wife, 60 Minutes, SNL w/ my 14 yr. old
Outdoor activityAutomobiles/Motorcycles, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Horseback riding, Running, Sports/Athletics, Tennis, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activityArt, Dancing, Music, Opera/Theater, Politics
My idea of a great tripHike the Andes, 6 hour bike ride, Barcelona for 2 wks, Peru
FoodFrench, Japanese, Mediterranean, Mexican, Persian, Seafood, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan
Favorite restaurantsAny hole in the wall where food is excellent
Schools attendedMt. View Union Academy, UC Santa Barbara, UC Hastings
TimelinessI am usually a little late
As for fashionI'm a somewhat fashionable person


Match Preferences

AgeBetween 47 and 60 years old
HeightBetween 4' 8" (142 cm) and 5' 8" (172 cm)
DrinkingOn occasion



What I'd like to do on a first date...

Two people getting together to share something, words, food, a motorcycle ride, thoughts, a bike ride, walk the dog, a story, a poem, frustrations, a joyful moment, a ride around a race track in a race car, play music together...anything active or that makes you laugh…and let go of the analysis and "what ifs."

My past relationships have taught me...

When another's words or actions are ambiguous, we assume their intentions are what we fear the most, which is often totally wrong. If if doesn't work out, take it in stride, see the humor in it; humans are quirky by nature. There is a silver lining to most disappointments.

To me, being an Adventist means...

Having compassion, being a humanitarian, treating all with dignity, and in the end your presence has helped or made others better or happier.

In five years, I see myself

In some small way(s), make loved ones happy / the world a better place, stay healthy, continue to find the rhythm and beauty in each day, spend more time in nature. In five years I will also be an old man with a son in college.

My favorite Bible passage is...

There are so many but here is one: "[b]etter is a dry morsel, and the quietness therewith, than a house full of sacrifices, with strife."
Here is another favorite: "[b]lessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth."

One final thing I'd like to mention...

Please don't take anything said here too seriously; we are all but humans fumbling about looking for happiness, love and security with each having our own unique interpretations of what those mean. It is a miracle that two can find and have true and enduring love for each other anyway.